Wednesday, August 16, 2023

7 Engagement Ring Trends That Are Defining 2023, According to Experts

Unlike popular runway styles, engagement ring trends tend to move on a slower, subtler track (there’s not a wedding ring equivalent of a butterfly top or leather harness, after all).  Even so, options are still diverse and run the gamut, ranging from traditional designs like solitaire settings all the way to modern interpretations like black diamond ring rings or bezel-set bands. This year, experts are pointing to a similarly varied array of ring trends that will be seen everywhere, with options that both die-hard minimalists and those with bolder tastes can envision slipping on their fingers.

If you happen to be in the market for an engagement ring and find yourself overwhelmed by choosing one style to wear for the rest of your life — don’t. “Often people put a lot of pressure on an engagement ring, thinking they have to love it forever, so they end up choosing something traditional,” Meadowlark co-founder Claire Hammon says. “But things change, and you can remodel your ring in the future as your style evolves.”

When looking for an engagement ring that resonates with your personal style, designer Ashley Zhang says to begin with a digital mood board of sorts. “Save screenshots of any and all styles of rings you like. After a few weeks you might be surprised to find that a few of them have similar looks or elements,” she says. Once you have a general sense of the vibe you’re going for, according to GIA expert Nellie Barnett, you should focus on the center stone, asking questions like: “Are you a dazzling diamond type of person or attracted to a pop of color using emerald, morganite, or a different kind of gemstone?” From there, she adds, look for a gemstone with a report. 

All of this to say, choosing an engagement ring that’s right for you isn’t a perfect science. It’s a mix of gut instinct and what’s available in the current market. If you’re not sure where to start, ahead, seven trends that have taken over 2023. 

Rings With Colored Stones

Non-diamond center stones have steadily climbed in popularity over the last few years and experts point to this trend as one that will only continue to grow. “Colored stones will be going strong for a long time,” Hammon predicts. Zhang notes that her team has also been receiving more requests for colored stones than ever before. “These can either be as the center and main stone or as accents,” she says. “Using colored gemstones is a great way to have a unique look… These rings still feel bridal and special but also bold and different.” 

Yellow Gold Bands

While Sex and the City’s Carrie Bradshaw had a bone to pick with her yellow gold engagement ring band, the trend has become a preferred option in recent years. “Yellow gold is our most requested metal,” Zhang says. “I think this choice in settings will stay strong. The contrast of the yellow with white diamonds really makes them pop.” If you’re going especially unique, consider mixing silver and gold metals when choosing a wedding band to complement your stone. 

Chunky Bands

Though dainty, delicate rings have been in favor for seemingly forever, the pendulum is beginning to swing in the opposite direction. “Bold pieces will grow in popularity,” Marrow Fine founder and creative director, Jillian Sassone, says. “Metal-heavy chunky settings have been requested the most in 2022, and I don’t see that slowing down. If anything, our brides and grooms are doubling down on that by adding cigar bands and other statement-making wedding bands to their bridal sets.”

Vintage-Inspired Rings

A “vintage-inspired” engagement ring can mean a lot of things from types of settings (e.g. Art Deco) to cuts (Old European), but a general sense of old-meets-new is permeating current trends. “I’ve seen an increase in demand for reimagining heirloom stones into new designs that feel more aligned with the bride’s or groom’s style,” Sassone notes. Zhang has also seen an uptick in old gemstones. “Old-mine cut diamonds and antique cushions are the most desired request we get,” she says. “These stones are rare and extremely difficult to find. Mined and cut over 100 years ago, they have such a unique sparkle.” 

Non-Traditional Rings

You might think of engagement ring bands as falling into three main categories: gold, rose gold, and silver. But this year, that might change. “Our popular Til Death band is ideal for our brides and grooms who want to make a big statement about their love,” Sassone says about the black enamel band emblazoned with the words “til death.” “It feels like a Victorian throwback while the old English type brings an edge that is resonating with couples wanting a bold non-traditional wedding band.” Other materials such as tungsten carbide and teakwood also lend unexpected elements to otherwise-traditional settings. 

Step-Cut Diamond Rings

For brides with pared-back style, Sassone says to watch out for step-cut diamonds — a square or rectangle stone with parallel facets on all four sides, resembling steps — as a trend in 2023. “I love a step-cut diamond for a minimalist,” she says. “The clean architectural lines are perfect for someone with style but who doesn’t want a lot of flash.” 

Pear and Oval Rings

While celebrity engagements don’t always move the needle for trends, Sassone says Sydney Sweeney’s mega-round brilliant was noteworthy. In addition to classic round shapes, both oval- and pear-shaped rings will continue to trend next year. “Hailey Bieber’s oval engagement ring is still a piece that clients reference,” she says. “Pear and oval shapes elongate the finger and look spectacular on any hand.”

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6 Practical Yet Fashionable Handbags R29 Editors Recommend For Travel

Prepping for a trip can be a whirlwind. You not only have to find the right suitcase or weekender bag, make sure you have a pair of comfortable sneakers, and then actually pack, but you also need a personal bag that is both sensible and stylish — one that goes from the airport to sightseeing to a night out. Do you opt for a trendy handbag or a reliable oversized tote? The struggle is real. No need to fret because our editors are recommending their favorite practical bags for travel. Our tried-and-true list covers everything from versatile crossbodies and viral Lululemon belt bags to chic modern totes and elevated backpacks that pair effortlessly with your ‘fits and carry your essentials. 

Whether you’re a minimalist in search of a small bag to hold essentials or a maximalist who needs a roomy backpack, we have the top editor-approved picks for you at various price points. The cheapest is less than $25, and the most expensive style is a little over $500. Before you jet off on your next trip, find the best practical handbag for you. You’ll be cruising through TSA or the subway before you know it.

Lululemon Everywhere Belt Bag 1L, $38

Becca Sax, Affiliate Coordinator: The Easy-To-Access Belt Bag

The Bag: “I love this bag because it holds all my on-flight necessities when smooshed in a little airplane seat for a few hours. I’m able to fit all my essentials, including my AirPods, a charger cable, an external charger, passport, airplane ticket, a plug, a small snack, Aquaphor chapstick, and my sunscreen stick, and be set for the flight without having to leave my seat. It looks small, but it holds quite a lot of stuff.”

How To Wear/Style It: “Usually, I put my fanny pack inside a backpack that I carry around the airport and pull it out when I get on the plane so I don’t have to deal with a backpack and can keep my important stuff near me for when I inevitably fall asleep. When I get on the plane, I like to wear it across my waist so it doesn’t pull on my shoulders. But I also like having the fanny pack for essentials in case I need to stash my bag at the hotel while waiting to check in. It’s convenient that I can wear it across my shoulder and I feel like it’s secure to just let it hang across my waist for a different look.”

J.Crew Berkeley Bucket Bag In Leather, $198

Kate Spencer, Sr. Affiliate Strategist: The Versatile Bucket Bag

The Bag: “While I wait to save for my Park Tote by The Row, I came across this simple black bucket-style bag from J.Crew that is equally chic. The leather is great quality, it’s structured but not stiff, and it can fit my laptop and any other necessities (books, makeup bag, an extra sweater, etc.) without oversizing.”

How To Wear/Style It: “I wear this bag anywhere and everywhere. Mainly, I use it as my work bag, but I also style it casually on the weekends and have used it as a carry-on tote for travel. It’s so versatile I’m hoping J.Crew eventually starts releasing this style in different size variations.”

Tumi Celina Backpack, $475

Charlotte Lewis, Sex & Wellness Writer: The Elevated Backpack

The Bag: “This backpack is a bit pricey, but there’s not a day I don’t use it where I don’t receive a compliment on how cute it is. It’s not your average backpack, okay? Not only that, but it’s light, spacious, and easy to carry, and it has a special laptop section but doesn’t look like a laptop bag at all. It’s seriously insane how much I’m able to fit into it. I call it my magical Mary Poppins bag because any time I empty it, people around me are shocked at what I’ve managed to Tetris inside — my laptop, chargers, water bottle, bullet journal, pen case, pill case, book du jour, and a sweatshirt can all fit together. I’ve even used it as an overnight bag and put in a pair of heels, a change of clothes, and my toiletries. It would do great for a city exploration day because of how much it fits and how comfy the straps are to wear for long periods. I swear, there’s nothing this backpack can’t do.”

How To Wear/Style It: “I use it mostly on my work commute (which includes a 20-minute walk from the subway that my shoulder bag is not suited for). But it’s also the exact right size to fit below an airplane seat, making it a perfect carry-on for someone interested in the quiet luxury trend. It can instantly upgrade any outfit and goes with everything from leggings and a T-shirt to fall dresses, and the straps fit easily over even the bulkiest winter coat. Plus, it comes in so many color combos; there’s definitely one for everyone’s aesthetic (my purple with gold zipper is a few seasons old, but there’s now also a new leather version that is tres chic!).”

Viva Terry Vegan Leather Crossbody Bag, $35.99 $23.31

Victoria Montalti, Associate Affiliate Writer: The No-Fuss Crossbody

The Bag: “The textured blue faux leather fabric was the first thing that caught my eye with this bag, but the printed guitar strap and inner pockets quickly won me over. (There are also plenty of other colorways and strap designs!) I like that this crossbody bag has a sleek, slim shape that isn’t bulky. However, it still manages to comfortably fit my essentials like my phone, wallet, keys, lip gloss, hand sanitizer, and sunglasses case.”

How To Wear/Style It: “I’m about to bring this bag with me on my vacation to Italy, and I’m planning on using it as my personal item for the plane and my everyday bag for touristy sightseeing days.”

Polène Numéro Dix, $460

Vivien Lee, Affiliate Fashion Writer: The Modern Crossbody/Shoulder Bag

The Bag: “I’m a flap bag girl through and through. However, the half-moon shape of this bag attracted my attention, along with the various shades Polène offered. While I chose the Midnight Blue version, the bag I’m highlighting above is the stunning forest green hue I regret not buying. Either way, the timeless leather bag is a staple meant for your handbag collection. Don’t let the quirky shape fool you, as it can hold countless things. It comfortably fits my cardholder, iPhone 13 Pro Max, hand cream, Fenty Beauty blotting powder, Aesop hand sanitizer, tissues, band-aids, gum, lip product of the day, and AirPods. I’m a Tetris organizer, but even if you’re not, you can plenty in here.”

How To Wear/Style It: “I’m proud to say that the only handbag I brought to Europe this past summer was my Polène Numéro Dix. I actually specifically bought this style just for the trip, as my friends and people on TikTok raved about how much room the crossbody could store, the scratch-resistant textured exterior, and the various ways you can style it. I was searching for a zipper bag that could match my day and night outfits, had no blaring logos that would attract unwanted eyes, and that I didn’t have to worry about scratches or the fragile state. Plus, one that I would repeatedly wear, even back home, and would last for a while.

“Thankfully, my Numéro Dix did the trick. I fashioned it into a shoulder bag for when my husband and I had dinner reservations at night, and I was wearing a dress or elevated attire. Then during the day, when we were sightseeing, and I was wearing casual clothes like a jean jacket and linen pants, I adjusted the strap into a secure crossbody that comfortably fit right under my chest. It was my most used bag — even with all the canvas totes I bought — that I didn’t regret once during the trip.”

Bao Bao Issey Miyake White Prism Tote, $510

Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer: The Compact Tote

The Bag: “I own multiple styles of Issey Miyake’s iconic Bao Bao tote and love how the geometric design is truly timeless and trend-less. (My most-worn bag is the white Prism tote, and my other favorite is a smaller-sized tote in silver.) Because of the delicate nature of the bag, I don’t like to overstuff it with things; when I carry this one, I usually store my essentials (phone, wallet, keys, compact mirror), plus a book or magazine I’m reading — nothing too bulky that would alter the flat shape of the bag. It’s my go-to for traveling because it packs completely flat and goes with pretty much everything I wear.”

How To Wear/Style It: “My Bao Bao totes have traveled the world with me! I buy them exclusively in Japan during annual family vacations, where I can shop them in the local currency and tax-free at the duty-free boutique. I style my totes with everything from a white tee and denim (which, TBH, I love) to a chic LBD. It instantly elevates any outfit, and I love that for me!”

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