A Nordstrom Stylist Created The Androgynous Summer Wardrobe Of My Dreams

Sometimes I wish I could just have someone choose my clothes for me. But when I used to think about personal stylists, I would imagine something from my mom’s time. And while it may seem like an old-fashioned concept (or maybe one reserved for only the rich), they’re still very much around — and if you know where to look, you can find ones that are cool, creative, and know what the word “androgynous” means. I recently got to find this out for myself when Nordstrom sent me to Los Angeles to experience its styling services during the celebration of the opening of the newest Nordstrom Rack store.

The closest I’ve ever had to a styling experience was shopping with my mom for my prom dress and getting help from the associates. This was definitely not that. When you book a free in-store or online 30-minute appointment, you share your sizes, budget, and preferences, answering questions like “What are you looking to focus on for your wardrobe or lifestyle needs right now?” and “What are your favorite brands and colors to wear?” As someone who’s constantly rebranding myself, I was really looking forward to my styling services. Is that the Aquarius or the genderqueer identity, who knows? Nevertheless, I’m always ready to start fresh — especially since I’ve gotten more comfortable with my gender identity. I gave my stylist Amanda McCarthy the following guideline: “I’m looking for androgynous pieces, something that is both feminine and masculine. My top 3 things are comfort, stylishly baggy, and neutral colors.” She absolutely knocked it out of the park — a home run all the way. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but when I walked into that extra-large fitting room and saw several outfits hung up that perfectly matched the description of what I wanted, I was sold. I bought most of the pieces she picked out for me, and if I could have purchased them all, I would have. I truly couldn’t recommend the Nordstrom styling enough, especially if you’re someone in between sizes — they know exactly what brand runs big, small, or true-to-size. I’ve never had a smoother shopping experience. Curious? Keep on reading to see how this Nordstrom stylist dressed this non-binary lesbian up for summer.

Breezy Masc For The Office Fit

I was instantly drawn to this outfit — specifically, these shorts. These pieces are definitely ones I would pick out individually, but would probably not pair together — especially not with the white blazer. But, it all works so well together. I told Amanda how much I loved the outfit and how perfectly it captured the vibes I was looking for. It’s like she took the mental image right out of my head. This is exactly what I meant when I said I wanted a masc outfit.

And spoiler alert: This was my favorite outfit of the entire styling session. I loved — and purchased — every single part of this outfit (with the exception of the shoes). The suede Free People shorts are super comfy and classy enough to be worn to the office (at least.. to my office). The Skims mock neck tank is my newest obsession — I’ve worn it way too many times already! It’s so soft, flattering, and thin enough to be super breezy without being see-through. While the Open Edit blazer requires steaming (a real no-no for my lazy lifestyle), this oversized white one is definitely worth it. It’s very lightweight and goes with everything.

Casual & Cute Shopping Fit

More on the femme side, this outfit is super cute and I can easily picture it for a day out shopping in SoHo or getting lunch with friends. As much as I’m a total Madewell fanatic, I have yet to own actual Madewell jeans — until now. These jeans are so comfortable, I wore them on my 6-hour flight just fine. The other two main pieces of this outfit were amazing, they just didn’t make the cut. The Good American white button-up and the Free People tank top were so soft and stylish — plus, I adored that shade of green. The crossbody bag really just tied it all together.

Tying up the white button-down was definitely my idea, and I think that, combined with my hair bandana, gives the outfit a more cottagecore vibe. I really made it my own, which Amanda suggested I do. I think if I didn’t tie it up, it would be slightly more masc presenting — which I also love. I would usually stray away from skinny jeans for the comfort level and would probably not have tried these specific Madewell ones on, but I’m so glad she picked them for me. Otherwise, this outfit is totally in my comfort zone; I would wear this now and I would have worn it a few years ago too.

Picnic-Ready Queer Overalls Fit

When I showed McCarthy this outfit on me, she was shocked by how much it suited me — saying it looked like I already owned it. The green hair bandana really tied it all together. I would have definitely picked this entire outfit myself and paired it together too. It’s exactly my vibe (you can tell by how happy I am in the mirror selfie) — which is a shock considering Amanda had never met me and only had a few words to go by.

I’m a big overalls person. They make the ultimate quick, easy, and super gay outfit — truly essential for any lazy person out there. I think everyone should own some denim overalls in every shade, and white was just what my closet was missing. These Free People ones are super comfortable (have you guessed by now that that’s the most important element for me?) and insanely stylish. They truly go with everything. The stylist paired it with the same green Free People tank top and the same shoes you’ve been seeing in all these photos, the Adidas Retropy E5 Sneaker. I didn’t end up buying this specific pair she had picked out, instead, I went with the black Converse Chuck Taylor All Star Run Star Hike High Top Platform (which I’ve been eyeing forever, and my stylist definitely approved of).

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The 33 Best Sandals To Strap Onto Your Feet This Summer

Summertime is fast-approaching, which means sandal season is going to be in full swing. While trends come and go, sandals will always be a warm-weather must-have. From barely there thongs to chunky wedges, there’s a pair for every style, outfit, and budget. Overwhelmed by all the options? We’ve consolidated several of our favorite comfortable sandal brands and styles into a best sandals guide (and included a few other trends we’re loving for our feet).

To make the list, we looked at a number of factors, including overall comfort level, trendiness, price point, and use. For instance, we love that our readers are the types to need hiking sandals in the morning and heeled wedding sandals in the evening. Or, perhaps there’s a practical need for a chic waterproof sandal that’s appropriate for both a beach day and a rainy dinner date. Maybe you’re a prudent shopper in the market for sensible (and obviously cute) orthopedic sandals or travel shoes that won’t cramp your OOTD. Whatever kind of sandal you need, the internet shall deliver.

One major thing to keep in mind is that we are talking shoes, which means that depending on the sandal, a break-in period is absolutely necessary and to be expected. But once that’s done, you’ll have that perfectly molded-to-you shoe. Ahead, our sandals guide provides you with some of the best toe-wiggling, pedicure-friendly styles.

Best Luxury Sandals

Because we love an extra moment, anytime, anywhere, we’re kicking off this summer sandals guide with a few luxury styles that double as statement shoes. Colorful espadrilles, thong-styled sandals, trendy puff sandals — bring ‘em all on, and step forth in confidence!

Best Closed-Toe Sandals

One of the biggest closed-toe sandal trends is the fisherman sandal, which is ideal for anyone who wants to go a little longer between pedicures. Another classic staple in this category is huaraches, which are hand-woven braided sandals originating from Mexico. Also, consider classic espadrilles that’ll keep you covered and comfortable.

Best Platform Sandals

Let’s get high — off the ground, that is. Platform sandals continue to be a favorite summer shoe style because these height boosters are generally more comfortable than actual heels. Plus, the chunky sole can provide cushioning between you and the hard floor or sidewalk. Check out platform sandals (and flatform sandals) with thick soles made from lightweight natural cork or natural rubber.

Best Sandals For Walking

Whether you’re looking for a go-to walking shoe to help get all of your errands done or searching for the most foot-friendly option for some summer sightseeing, there are plenty of options. These options have extra sole support and thick straps to keep you feeling secure all day long. Plus, they’re beloved by those who already wear them.

Best Orthopedic Sandals

Somewhere along the way, orthopedic shoe brands like Dr. Scholl’s became ultra-stylish and trendy. (And, no, not in an ironic way.) Depending on your foot preferences, seek out squishy EVA footbeds that can help absorb your steps. These comfort-focused brands also offer good arch and ankle support, and they are a great all-day option for travel or work.

Best Heeled Sandals (That Are Actually Comfortable)

Comfortable, cute heels aren’t an oxymoron — if you know what to look for. The key is finding shoes with trendy details that still keep you (relatively) close to the ground, like sandals from “comfortable shoe” brands like Camper. Prefer a chunkier yet feminine step? A heeled platform sandal, like this style from Boden, will give you a lift without any of the pain. 

Best Slides

For the ultimate out-the-door-in-seconds shoe, it doesn’t get better than the slide. It’s such an easy and effortless silhouette that you’ll find it everywhere. Your fave activewear brand likely has its own version of the slide sandal, as does your fave shoe designer. We pulled a few unique styles that also include decent arch support, here.

Best Cheap, Under-$15 Sandals

Sometimes we just need an unfussy pair of affordable sandals to get us through the season. Luckily, the internet has plenty to offer via fashion heavy hitters like Asos and Forever 21. At such gentle price points, you won’t be shy about wearing them to death. 

Best Sandals for Hiking & Sports

Fabulous for hiking, camping, or general sporting, these strappy waterproof sandals are designed to stay secure on your feet at all times — no matter if you’re wading in a river or hitting the trails. In terms of being nature-friendly, the best outdoor sandals check all the boxes: They’re quick-dry, have grippy traction soles, and boast comfy EVA-cushioned footbeds.

Best Wide Fit Sandals

Wide-feet shoppers know that finding a stylish brand that also offers extended-width sizes is no easy task. Fortunately, we can look to trustworthy wide-width shoe brands. Retailers like Amazon and Zappos also have God-sent search filters, so only wide and extra-wide sandals are pulled up.

Best Waterproof Sandals For The Beach Or Pool

Chances are you’ll be hitting the pool or beach before summer ends, and you’ll need waterproof sandals tasked to take you there and back. Look for PCU or a synthetic material that dries fast and won’t warp or get soggy when wet. Molded footbeds and fun patterns and designs also help these utilitarian shoes have a bit of style. For a day-to-night waterproof sandal that makes you look even more put-together, opt for a pool shoe with a slingback strap.

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This Uniqlo Collab Makes Sheer Clothing So Wearable — & So Chic

What better way to tap into summer 2023’s sheer clothing trend than with a selection of airy, affordable silhouettes? Uniqlo has granted our wishes with another brilliant collab with Mame Kurogouchi. The feminine, artistic Japanese womenswear brand has returned for a fifth collection with Uniqlo, and, similar to its past four lines, there is a focus on loungewear and innerwear. The last collection showcased pieces in Uniqlo’s famous HEATTECH material for fall and winter. Meanwhile, Uniqlo and Mame Kurogouchi’s Spring/Summer 2023 collection offers sheer material that is delicate and comfortable enough to be worn alone or paired with other pieces. The pieces are a perfect stylish alternative to more revealing summer clothes that are still ultra-cooling. The brand’s innerwear collection blurs the line between intimates and clothing for everyday attire that is both classic and approachable for any wearer. With a little styling, they can be workwear appropriate or even a daring going-out top that still looks sexy while keeping you covered

The new collection is now available to shop on Uniqlo’s site and in select UNIQLO stores in the US. You’ll find the majority of the new items come in XS to XXL and at an affordable price range. Select innerwear is less than $30, while knitwear and bottoms are less than $60, with tights and socks under $15. Layer with one of the sheer sleeveless tops or stylish camisoles for a humid summer day, or glide into the brand’s light-as-air cotton slip for late-night summer walks. If you’ve missed out on previous collections, you definitely won’t want to make the same mistake with this one. 

Innerwear

Designed to be worn as a base layer, some pieces, like the sheer cami, could also be worn alone for a daring and fashion-forward summer look.

Knitwear

Go fully sheer with these tops, and dresses, or opt for a sweater with mesh detailing that adds eye-catching texture to an otherwise basic top.

Bottoms

These ribbed bottoms play on two of the summer’s most enduring trends: longer skirts and bike short-style pants. The body-skimming silhouettes can be paired with similarly slinky tops or with something oversized, like a button-up or sweatshirt.

Tights + Socks

The lightweight, sheer material allows you to wear tights or socks on even the hottest summer day.

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We Found Easy-Yet-Elevated Work Outfits For Summer

Dressing up for the office can become a dilemma during the warmer months. Looking put together when all you want to do is lounge in a sundress is a job in itself. Add finding something that’s cool enough for your commute and warm enough for office air-conditioning, and it’s a lot to ask. All we want is an effortlessly chic look without putting in a whole lot of effort. So it’s crucial to find acceptable summer fashion for the office that prevents us from being sweaty messes.

Kit and Ace is committed to creating wardrobe staples that are functional and comfortable. The brand makes menswear and womenswear, which includes dresses and suiting separates in durable fabrics that are light- to mid-weight and don’t require dry-cleaning. The versatile clothing is also available in fresh, neutral colors like cream, navy, olive, and lilac, which can effortlessly be mixed and matched. Overall, it’s a collection of tried-and-true investment pieces.

Don’t think that office attire has to be stuffy though. R29 shopping editors put Kit and Ace’s new summer arrivals to the test, including a work-appropriate jumpsuit and lightweight trousers. And we found that these comfy, summer-Friday-esque pieces are so versatile that we can wear them from the office to the park to a fancy restaurant (and yes, even to bed — read on!) without feeling out of place. So if you too are in need of casual work outfits, check out our honest reviews of Kit and Ace’s clothing below.

Charlotte Lewis, Sex & Wellness Writer

“I recently decided that my spring/summer uniform is going to be body-con ribbed cami dresses with oversized sweaters, and the Banyan Ribbed Dress couldn’t have fit the bill more perfectly. I ordered a size small in navy and probably could have sized down to an XS for a more body-hugging silhouette, but I don’t mind the slightly looser fit. The fabric is so incredibly soft. It feels like wearing a blanket, and I was pretty excited that it was thick enough that I could wear it without a bra (I’ve given them up post-Covid).

“I appreciate how versatile the dress is. It looked just as good solo with sandals as with my sweater and boots, and with some fancier jewelry and makeup, it could be totally appropriate for a night out. Also, I love that the navy is on the bluer side, so it gives a pop of color while still feeling like a neutral you can build on top of. The midi length is super-flattering, too, and I can already tell it’s going to be a staple in my wardrobe through the fall (with the appropriate layers, of course).”

Becca Sax, Affiliate Coordinator

“I got the Aspen Wide Leg Pants and can I just say, ‘Wow, these pants fit me better than any pants I have ever owned’ — almost like they’re tailored to me! I was initially unsure about fit since as a former swimmer, pants normally don’t fit in the crotch area or around my thighs, but not these army green bad boys! Currently, my sizing fluctuates around the 6 to 10 range depending on the brand, so using the sizing chart I sized up a little bit, and the length, fit, and thickness of the fabric are fab.

“I love that I can dress the pants up for work or down for a little shindig, and they’re thick enough to keep me warm during a chilly spring. My roommate even wants a pair now!”

Sarah Crow, Affiliate Director

“I’m not typically much of a one-piece person but Kit + Ace’s Banyan Jumpsuit one might just convince me to rethink my anti-jumpsuit stance. This piece is so soft and light that it basically feels like wearing pajamas, but I’ve also been assured by multiple friends and colleagues that it is, in fact, completely work-appropriate. I’m wearing the piece in a size medium here and paired it with an open-front blazer, some statement necklaces, hoops, and a pair of spiky flats to dress it up a bit for the office, but it could easily work with a pair of sneakers and a jean jacket, too.

The legs are a bit wider than I would have hoped for from an aesthetic perspective but that definitely adds to the piece’s overall comfort. I’ve been trying to find a perfect travel outfit for some time now and I’m pretty sure this is going to be my new go-to the next time I’m flying.” 

Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer

“This is my first time trying Kit & Ace, and wow — I’m impressed. I love a power suit moment, and this dusty lilac number is so, so cool. I’m always looking for a comfortable yet stylish uniform (especially one that’ll take me from the plane to the office or an event), and this one is it. The fit of the Sublime Blazer and the Sublime Ankle Trousers is relaxed yet structured, and the Tencel fabric is lightweight and has plenty of movement.

“I layered the set over the Kit Sleeveless Halter Top, a sleek, high-neck tank in super-soft, cotton-y fabric. All in all, I’m beyond impressed with the quality and fit of Kit & Ace and will definitely be keeping the brand on my radar for future transitional pieces!”

Victoria Montalti, Associate Affiliate Writer

“When I shop for clothes that I can potentially wear to the office, I try to make sure there’s something unique about the pieces so they don’t feel too corporate-y. These Sublime Wide Leg Trousers stood out to me because they don’t have a traditional straight-leg cut, and the elastic belt-loop-free waistband offers a more relaxed fit. As opposed to the thickness of the Aspen trousers, these Sublime trousers are very lightweight, which I enjoy for some casual office vibes and think will be perfect for the warmer months.

“I opted for size 14, which fit but I could’ve gone one size down because of the elastic-back waistband for a more form-fitting look. And at just 5’3”, these pants are a bit long for me, so I may need to get them tailored. But while the weather’s still chilly, I’m pairing them with my trusty platform Uggs for a cozy, not-so-corporate work look.”

Venus Wong, Senior Travel Writer

“A cotton T-shirt dress is the kind of breezy wardrobe staple that I love throwing on whenever it gets too hot (or I’m just too lazy to make an effort). This Brushed Skylark Dress takes it to a whole new level, though. The brushed French terry material is so impossibly soft, wearing it feels like cuddling with your favorite childhood blanket or well-worn pair of fleecy PJs. In fact, I wore this dress to bed on a recent staycation since I forgot to pack sleepwear — and had the best snooze ever. I looked polished enough for breakfast in the hotel lobby even when I rolled straight out of bed.

“There’s a bit of weight with the fabric, so it drapes really nicely over your body without looking too much like a boxy sheath. A hidden zipper pocket, cuffed sleeves, and an exposed seam down the back are the little details that communicate that this is a high-quality piece. The hem is intentionally unfinished by the brand so that you can customize the dress to your desired length; it did hit at my ankles on my 5-foot frame, so I’ll probably cut this down to calf length eventually. The earthy olive color looks so cute with warm, brown tones, which is the majority of the accessories I own, so I’m excited to dress it up with a leather braided belt, gold jewelry, and strappy sandals — though it has more than proven its keep with the coziness.”

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The sun is shining, flowers are blooming and cumbersome winter coats have officially been stored away. All of this can only mean one thing: Summer is almost here. With warm-weather cheer comes a renewed social life that has us out and about at various events that call for festival style, wedding outfits and trend-forward looks for everything in between. And, of course, a sense of playfulness returns to our wardrobes courtesy of spring/summer fashion that has us leaning into bright colors, florals (groundbreaking, we know), and the carefree joy that crackles in warm air as anticipation for vacation season sets in. 

More places to go to and things to do also means that, in April, our editors were keeping their sharp eyes out for the best fashion finds available to anyone with an internet connection. Among some of our favorite picks are a spring-ready bucket hat, effortlessly chic sunnies, a pull-it-all-together bag, and so much more. Ahead some of the best fashion items our team loved this month.

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Kate Spade Packable Sam Icon Hat

"I’ve never been a bucket hat person until I saw this green one inspired by Kate Spade’s Sam bag, which celebrates its 30th year anniversary this year. Also available in Barbiecore-approved pink and black, its foldable design has made it a must-pack addition for my upcoming trip to Japan in case of any unexpectedly rainy days." — Irina Grechko, fashion director

Kate Spade New York Packable Sam Icon Bucket Hat, $, available at Zappos

Reformation Amir Linen Two Piece

"Spring is taking its sweet time to arrive in Toronto, where I live, but this two-piece set is helping me to think warm vibes. While I paired it with white heels and a linen blazer for a seasonal feel, it will also work with my brown cowboy boots and a matching leather jacket. I'm all in!" — Carli Whitwell, senior director of editorial

Reformation Amir Linen Two Piece, $, available at Reformation

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Consider these the ultimate spring jeans. The sage green hue will lend a pop of color to all of your warm-weather ensembles, while the mid-rise, straight-leg fit nails the baggy ‘90s look that’s so on-trend right now.

Levi's 501® 90s Colored Denim Jeans, $, available at Levi's

Luar Ana Bag

"I've been hunting for a Luar Ana bag for months now, so when the brand announced it was having a 50% off sale, I knew it was my moment. I picked the espresso shade to divert from my usual roster of black handbags (I know, risqué), and so far have found the color surprisingly versatile. The bag is also more spacious than it seems and easy to carry on busy days given it comes with a crossbody strap. Plus, it's one of the most buzzed handbags out there, so I feel like a total It girl." — Frances Solá-Santiago, fashion writer

Luar Ana Large Croc-Embossed Top-Handle Bag, $, available at Bergdorf Goodman

Le Specs Outta Love Sunglasses

"We've hit true sunglasses season, and this style from Le Specs may be my favorite pair I own. The price point is pretty reasonable at $65, so I haven't felt too precious about them (I'm always nervous to scratch or bend true designer shades). They're also light on my face, don't give me a headache after wearing them all afternoon, and provide that minimal '90s fashion vibe I always seem to be drawn to." — Kate Spacer, senior affiliate strategist

Le Specs Outta Love, $, available at Le Specs

Rellery Flower Ring

"I’ve been a fan of Rellery’s checker rings for a few years now, which is why I am thrilled about the launch of the Bloomscape collection which sees the familiar chunky dome setting made fresh with the addition of blooms." — Irina Grechko, fashion director

Rellery Flower Ring - Blue, $, available at Rellery

Zara Crop Poplin Shirt

"Confession: I collect white blouses. Oversized and casual cotton ones for home or the beach. Crisp satin ones for peak 9 to 5 vibes. This new Zara version is my absolute favorite. It's a party in the front and very much the back. Plus, it's on sale!" — Carli Whitwell, senior director of editorial

Zara Crop Poplin Shirt, $, available at Zara

Polène Cyme Bag

"The black tote bag has been one of my signature pieces since college. But I had never tried one quite like this model from Polène. Featuring tote and shoulder straps, as well as magnets that adjust the size to the items you put in (including a 13-inch laptop), this handbag is the ludicrously capacious bag we all need for office days. " — Frances Solá-Santiago, fashion writer


Polène Cyme Bag, $, available at Polène

Aritzia Sail Poplin 3" Short

"I love a co-ord set. They are so easy to pull together but look like you spent a ton of time on your outfit. This one from Artizia is going to be in heavy rotation this summer, especially after I apply some much-needed self-tanner." — Carli Whitwell, senior director of editorial

Wilfred Free Sail Poplin 3" Short, $, available at Aritzia

Space Eyewear London Sunglasses

"I own more pairs of sunglasses than I care to admit, which makes this one — that I’ve worn on repeat since February — that much more noteworthy. The green hue gives just enough of a pop without overpowering the look, thanks to the fairly neutral lens color and silhouette." — Irina Grechko, fashion director

Space Eyewear London sunglasses, $, available at Space Eyewear

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