Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Gabriela Berlingeri’s Diciembre Veintinueve Is More Than A Side Project

When 29-year-old jewelry designer Gabriela Berlingeri logged on Zoom for our interview, it felt like I already knew her. We had never actually met, but I’ve known of Berlingeri since my high school years in Puerto Rico, when the small San Juan-based social scene mingled virtually on Facebook in its early days. Since then, the world has also gotten to know her too: Berlingeri is the founder of Diciembre Veintinueve, a Puerto Rico-based jewelry company, who carries a unique niche fame.

Searches for her name on TikTok have grown nearly 500 million views, while her Instagram account, which she opened in 2020, has more than 2.5 million followers. Numerous Instagram and TikTok accounts documenting everything from her outfits and birthday parties to her social circle have popped up throughout the years, at first in a large part thanks to her much-talked-about relationship with global reggaeton star Bad Bunny. Their relationship was made public in 2020 and that same year she photographed the artist’s cover for Rolling Stone. Berlingeri also has a verse in the song “El Apagón” from Bad Bunny’s chart-topping album Un Verano Sin Ti and appeared as his bride in the video for “Titi Me Preguntó.” 

Throughout the whirlwind, Berlingeri has stayed mostly a creature of mystery — by choice. A self-described “anxious” person who hates being in front of cameras, she’s had to grapple with the magnifying glass of fame by proxy, while cautiously setting a path for herself. “This is definitely something I wouldn’t have done before,” she tells Refinery29, referring to our interview when I address how reserved she’s been in the past. Berlingeri admits that Diciembre Veintinueve, which she launched in 2020, is changing that. “I didn’t want Diciembre Veintinueve to be a brand that people buy because I make it,” she says. “I wanted it to sell because it was good.”

“I didn’t want Diciembre Veintinueve to be a brand that people buy because I make it. I wanted it to sell because it was good.”

Gabriela Berlingeri

With its gold pendant necklaces and minimalist aesthetic, Diciembre Veintinueve, which she named after her own birth date, has all the markings of today’s digital-first, direct-to-consumer brands. In Berligeri’s case, it was inspired by her beachside life, which translates to sun-shaped necklaces, gold chain bracelets, and pearl accessories. “I focused on making something durable that people don’t have to take off [at the beach],” she says. “I think that defines Diciembre Veintinueve.”

Berlingeri’s love affair with jewelry started when she was working part-time for a local accessories brand, assisting with everything from making pieces to packing orders. “It came to a point where I said to myself, ‘I have learned a lot, I’ve seen how this can be done,” she says. And it’s not just her now: Berlingeri has grown Diciembre Veintinueve’s workforce to four employees, who, she says, are all her friends. “I still haven’t hired people I don’t know,” she admits, “but that’s a step that I have to take because we are growing.” 

Scrolling through TikTok, it’s hard to find a customer who doesn’t mention Berlingeri when reviewing their Diciembre Veintinueve pieces. Customers like Perú-based Isabel Colomé, for example, who first learned of Berlingeri because she’s a fan of Bad Bunny. Although she was initially curious about Diciembre Veintinueve because of Berlingeri’s association, Colomé says she was later impressed by the products.

Her first purchase was the Sonste necklace, a best-selling piece that’s known for its sun-shaped charm, crisp gold color, and thick chain. “It was already sold out, so I had to wait until 2021 to get it,” says Colomé, who shared a video on TikTok of her Diciembre Veintinueve purchase last year. “I’m not a necklace person, but I wear it with everything.” Most times Colomé tries to buy a piece she says they sell quickly: “It’s like a Taylor Swift concert.” 

Still, even when the pieces win her over, Colomé keeps coming back to Diciembre Veintinueve because of Berlingeri. “I love the way she sees life,” says Colomé, adding that Berlingeri’s attachment to the ocean and Puerto Rico is part of what brought her to the brand. “It’s so interesting how much she loves her island.” Being a Puerto-Rico based company is a top priority for Berlingeri: “My sales are from all around the world, but what I like is that it comes from here, from Puerto Rico, from someone who lives at the beach,” says Berlingeri, adding that the next venture for Diciembre Veintineve is swimwear, but no specific plans have been revealed. 

“What I like is that it comes from here, from Puerto Rico”

Gabriela Berlingeri

Berlingeri’s fear of exposure has slowly faded as she’s taken a front-facing role in her business, especially on social media, where she’s regularly seen in videos making jewelry, playing with her dog Sansa, and modeling the brand’s designs. She has also collaborated with other designers like Puerto Rico-based womenswear label Eclípitica, which brought her in as a “muse” for a capsule collection, and Carolina Herrera, which invited Berlingeri to its latest resort show in Brazil. When I ask her if becoming more of an influencer-designer hybrid interests her, she pauses: “I do it more to get eyes on my brand,” she explains. “I like being more behind the scenes, but if I can be there and can participate, that’s great.”

Silence has ultimately paid off for Berlingeri. Fans, like Colomé, who once knew her as a “girlfriend of” are still coming to Diciembre Veintinueve in droves. And that’s the one persona she’d like the public to stick with: “I’d like people to know Gabriela, the one who makes jewelry, the one behind Diciembre Veintinueve,” she says.

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APL Launched A New “Dream” Sneaker — Does It Live Up To Its Name?

Welcome to Refinery29’s So, How Is It Really? where we take a look at all of the topics that have the internet talking. In studying them up close, we answer the question of what it’s really like to try out a trend, a viral product, or an unexpected TikTok hack. This month, we review the APL TechLoom Dream, a just-launched performance sneaker from editor- and celebrity-favorite brand APL.

I was never athletic as a kid — I was naturally injury-prone, and organized sports seemed like tempting fate — but as an adult, I’ve grown to love all things fitness. While I’m mostly into yoga, pilates, and spin, I’ve also been trying to get back into running, which in addition to being a great full-body workout is also free! Over the years, I’ve tested out quite a few runners (see here, here, and here!), but had somehow never tried a pair of APL workout sneakers. This is why when the sneaker brand beloved by the fashion set announced a new shoe drop, the TechLoom Dream, I jumped on the chance to try them out. 

APL TechLoom Dream, $250

Billed as an ”all-purpose running & training shoe,” the APL TechLoom Dream innovates on the existing TechLoom family of APL styles, which is known for its patented one-piece woven upper and performance-meets-luxury POV. What the Dream is betting big on, however, is even more comfort and support than its predecessors, thanks to a newly-engineered, cushion-y midsole that acts as a supportive surface for your foot and absorbs shock from the step. Other features include the Soufflé sock liner to keep things secure and comfortable, a cushioned collar (no scratched ankles here!) with performance mesh lining, and a rubber outsole with a hint of treads for added traction. 

Even in the box, the TechLoom Dreams looked absolutely gorgeous. I went with the black pair, which I could envision wearing outside of the gym, dressing up with a silk midi and top, or wearing out and about with denim and a crisp white tee.  (It also comes in a signature ivory colorway.) The TechLoom Dream has a size run of 5 through 11, including half sizes. I went for my true size, a 5.5, and these fit like a glove right away — no breaking in period. They were also incredibly breathable thanks to the knit upper, which I find is a highly underrated feature in footwear. (I recently hiked multiple trails in Hawaii, and shoes that had some degree of airflow were key.) While they felt super comfortable right away, I knew that the true test would be how my feet felt after an entire day of dog walks, errands, and workouts.

Once again, I have to reiterate the fit on these: They’re as true to size as can be, and my entire foot felt supported but not constricted. As I went about my day, I have to say — when APL says dreamy, they mean it. I like a lot of cushion — so much so that I almost feel like I’m floating on a cloud with every step — and these shoes deliver. When I took them out for an inaugural run on the treadmill — a breezy three-mile run, 

For moderate exercise and casual wear, these truly tick all the boxes and then some. If I were going on anything longer or outdoors on uneven terrain though, I might suggest something a little more rugged because support and traction are essential to avoid slipping and sliding (aka, things that potentially lead to injury). However, for training and HIIT workouts, I really liked how responsive and lightweight the TechLoom Dream was.

Final verdict? At $250, she’s expensive — and looks it. But not only was the comfort level on point, but these are a seriously stylish pair of runners. They’re sporty, but still feel elevated, and could easily work as a lifestyle and workout shoe. All to say: whether you’re already a fan of APL or are a newbie like me, I think you’d be hard-pressed to find a more versatile – and chic — workout sneaker.

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Where To Shop Margot Robbie’s Iconic Looks From Barbie

Margot Robbie as a Barbie can fly down stairs and walk on water while going through a very relatable girlhood-to-womanhood identity crisis, and we love her for that. Greta Gerwig’s Barbie movie is the biggest film (and perhaps the biggest fashion event) of the year for good reason. It’s become the highest-grossing film ever from a female filmmaker, and even more impressively, it’s touched so many of our lives and has most definitely influenced our style.

Whether you got major life in plastic inspo from seeing it in theaters, are having an at-home viewing party, or are planning this year’s Halloween costume, we’ve combed through the film to put together the best Barbie movie outfits to replicate yourself. Think bigger than Barbiecore pink — we’ve covered different iterations of Margot Robbie’s Stereotypical Barbie in all of her whimsical dresses, jumpsuits, activewear, and more to show just how wearable and versatile they can be. Read on to find the best Barbie feather heels, gingham pieces, hair accessories (think bows, berets, and cowboy hats), and a take on the now-iconic outfit from the film’s final scene. Spoilers ahead!

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Pink Gingham Barbie

We see Margot Robbie’s Barbie sporting pink gingham several times in the film, first in a ’50s-style flared sundress that she wears while getting ready, accessorized with a matching hair bow and statement daisy earrings and necklace. The second time, she’s on the beach in a playsuit with a heart-shaped cutout back, pink gingham sun hat, and plastic shell jewelry. This is the print we’re most closely associating with Gerwig’s Barbie universe (Pink Gingham Barbie has also been immortalized in doll form by Mattel and was championed by Robbie on the press tour).

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Barbie in her pink, fluffy heels

When the first Barbie teaser trailer dropped, it set the internet alight. One scene, in particular, rocked algorithms the world over: Barbie stepping out of a pair of pink, fluffy heels, her feet perfectly pointed as a real Barbie doll’s would be. To quote director Bong Joon-ho, “To me, that’s cinema.”

Barbie’s feet — and her choice of footwear — play a significant role in her character development, so nabbing a pair of Barbie-esque heels is the perfect (and easiest!) starting point for dressing like the character. Whether you opt for a platform heel or kitten heel, be sure to pick the pinkest pair you can find (bonus points for feathers and other embellishments like rhinestones).

How to dress like Margot Robbie as No. 1 Ponytail Barbie

Our very first glimpse of Robbie as Barbie was nothing short of iconic. Dressed as No. 1 Ponytail Barbie — the original Barbie doll from 1959 — she stands proud and godlike in homage to 2001: A Space Odyssey. Nail the look with a black-and-white striped swimsuit, white cat-eye sunglasses, red lips, gold hoop earrings, and black peep-toe pumps.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Disco Jumpsuit Barbie

What’s a big, blowout party without glitzy disco outfits, a group of friends, a choreographed dance…and intrusive thoughts? That’s how it rolls in Barbie Land, anyway, as Robbie’s Barbie kills the mood with some existential questions about death.

We’ll leave the philosophizing to Barbie but for your own disco queen look, you want to be thinking ultra glam and gold. In the film, Robbie wears a jumpsuit that seems to be a nod to the 1981 Golden Dream Barbie. If you really want to recreate this look, Barbie’s frothy headpiece could be a fun DIY project with some wire, tulle, gold ribbon, and a glue gun.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Sailor Barbie

Barbie loves nothing more than a theme, as proven by her beachside sailor outfit (a look also adopted by her fellow Barbies). Throughout Barbie’s history, she’s had several nautical looks, mainly in the ’60s. She’s worn sailor stripes, retro bathing suits and bloomers, anchor motifs, and pleated skirts with suspenders. This is your sign to go barefoot and rock a retro coastal look (or just coastal accessories as we move into colder weather).

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Pink Beret Barbie

When Robbie’s Barbie decides to leave Barbie Land and visit “the real world” to discover “the truth about the universe,” she dons the universal symbol of poets and philosophers: a beret. Naturally, hers is pink. You can also shop Peter Pan collar dresses or tops and dainty pink bows to achieve her ultra-fashionable road trip look.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Cowgirl Barbie

Yeehaw! Barbie has gone country several times in the past (namely 1980’s Western Superstar Barbie and 1993’s Western Stampin’ Barbie), but Gerwig’s hot-pink Cowgirl Barbie feels fresh and contemporary; it’s an outfit we could easily imagine wearing to a Harry Styles concert. If you’re on the hunt for a similarly colorful Western look, keep an eye out for separates as well as bold jumpsuits and cowboy boots to achieve an ultra-glam look.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Rollerskating Barbie

Barbie and Ken have been rollerskating since 1980, but Gerwig’s film iterations are clearly taking fashion inspiration from 1991’s Rollerblade Barbie’s cycle shorts and 1994’s Hot Skatin’ Barbie’s abstract prints and neon wheels. Though one of the most costume-y looks of the bunch, it’s one of the easiest to recreate, thanks to a resurgence of neon styles and dead-on Etsy dupes. We’ve even found a pair of yellow sneakers if inline skates are a bit too out-there for you.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Barbie in her pink power jumpsuit

After the Kens step out of line and take over Barbie Land, Margot Robbie’s Barbie and her fellow Barbies want to take back what’s rightfully theirs. (I mean, how dare the Kens change Barbie’s pristine pink Dreamhouse into a horse-themed Mojo Dojo Casa House?) They assemble a task force of sorts and, of course, have matching outfits to take over the patriarchy. Step out in a retro pink boiler suit and accessorize with oversized sunglasses, a puffy headband, or a printed headscarf to show people you mean business.

How to dress like Margot Robbie as Barbie as a human

When we first saw BTS photos of Robbie dressed in pink Birkenstocks and clothes that didn’t look doll-like, we questioned everything. When we finally watched that scene, it all made sense, and this look became just as iconic as her others. Robbie’s effortlessly chic look is a perfect everyday outfit that incorporates pink in a more digestible way. The pushed-up-sleeve blazer and relaxed-fit jeans are fresh, just like Robbie’s hair, which is casually pulled back rather than sleekly styled for the first time. This is no doubt the most wearable and versatile Barbie outfit in the movie and the easiest for you to replicate for a subtle Barbie flare.

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8 Fashion Trends Taking Over 2023 — Shop Them Now

Following spring/summer and fall runway collections making a case for all we should expect this year, 2023’s biggest fashion trends continue to fill the racks at stores everywhere. What should we be buying?

This year, trends have taken a turn for utilitarian with cargo pants, denim in all its forms, and wearable silhouettes all endorsed by the 2023 shows. That’s not to say that this year is boring style-wise. Dramatic hem lengths and silver metallics are still part of the sartorial picture, albeit in more practical iterations than ever before. In terms of color, now that the Barbie movie has come out in theaters, may we finally wave trendy hot pink goodbye, making way for new, exciting hues? Just don’t expect it to be all about Pantone’s color of the year Viva Magenta. Ahead, eight 2023 fashion trends to add to your shopping list from now and until the end of the year.

2023 Fashion Trend: Crochet

No trend was more ubiquitous on the spring/summer 2023 runways than crochet, with flowy dresses with fringe and open-weave tops appearing on catwalks of brands like Gabriela Hearst, Ulla Johnson, and Proenza Schouler. To extend the shelf life of the warm-weather trend, opt for timeless silhouettes and layerable pieces like crochet tanks that can be worn over long-sleeve turtlenecks and button-down shirts come winter.

2023 Fashion Trend: Red

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Glossy red hues took over the Fall 2023 runways ranging from Sandy Liang and PatBo to Tory Burch and Wiederhoeft. Think: Juicy reds with vibrant orange undertones that would look just as good in head-to-toe looks (see: a pantsuit) as accent accessory pieces (trendy shoes, handbags, jewelry, etc.).

2023 Fashion Trend: Cargo Pants

Utilitarian wear is in for 2023, which set the stage for the return of the cargo pant this year. But these aren’t the shapeless, low-rise pants of the Y2K era. For warmer weather, this trend is translated into tailored silhouettes, interesting pocket placements, elevated fabrics like silk and organza, and colors that go beyond khaki and olive.

2023 Fashion Trend: Sheer Clothing

Bare it all” has been the motto since the end of the lockdown. In 2023, naked dressing makes its way from the red carpet – where celebrities like Cher and Rihanna have been sporting the trend forever – to street style. From a cellophane-like dress, worn over a boldly hued maxi skirt at Tory Burch’s spring 2023 show, to a frothy frock revealing undergarments at Victoria Beckham, the previously risqué trend is coming not only for your weekend wardrobe but even everyday workwear.

2023 Fashion Trend: Denim Reimagined

From double-waisted jeans to carpenter jeans, it’s been a while since we were this excited about denim trends. It seems like even the most luxe runway designers agree, sending out strapless dresses, shirting, and even undergarments and shoes (thigh-high-boot-jean hybrids anyone?) in the material. Whatever category you decide on, opt for timeless cuts and silhouettes that can stay in your closet rotation once the novelty wears off.

2023 Fashion Trend: Shine For The Daytime

The amount of shine on the 2023 runways would make you think we are back in the Roaring ’20s. While sequins may feel over as soon as the clock strikes midnight on January 31, this year, designers are making a case for “daytime shine” – wearable separates that can spice up even the most basic staples like tank tops (see above) and blue jeans. While this trend comes in all metallic shades (gold, bronze, rose gold etc.), we are partial to the liquid silver look that can double as a neutral.

2023 Fashion Trend: Maxi Skirts

In response to the ultra unpractical mini skirts of 2022, maxi skirts have dominated 2023. In line with the aforementioned cargo and denim trends, expect lots of low-rise, pocket-adorned silhouettes and floor-grazing jean skirts, as well as styles in various prints and unexpected materials like velvet. Long live long hemlines!

2023 Fashion Trend: Cobalt Blue

The strongest color story to come out of Spring 2023 runways, cobalt blue has burst through the collections with the freshness of a sea mist on a morning day. Just bright enough to warrant a double take, yet subtle enough to be worked into daily wear, it’s the type of deep blue that will excite even the most color-averse. Bonus points: It pairs well with Pantone’s Viva Magenta.

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Buy Yourself A Birthday Gift

Host A Dinner Party

Concoct A Fanciful Cocktail
(Or Mocktail)

Get A Massage

Gift Yourself Something Sparkly

Take A Long Bath

Be Your Own Date

Buy Fancy New Bedding

Wear Your Most Luxurious Pajamas To Bed

Ditch Your Phone & Go Outside

Go On A #HotGirlWalk

Recite A Self-Love Affirmation

Spend A Lazy Day On The Couch

Order That Second Martini

Have An At-Home Spa Day

Change Up Your Hairstyle

Up Your Necklace Layering Game

Indulge In A #GirlDinner

Take Time To Journal

Treat Yourself...& Your Bestie, Too

Ring In The New Moon

Take A Beach Day

Invest In "Forever" Jewelry

Expand Your Mind

Hone Your Chef Skills

Revamp Your Space

Splurge On Fancy Glassware

Pet An Animal

Plan A Vacation

Buy Yourself A Birthday Gift

Birthdays are a perfect excuse for splurging on yourself. Birthstone jewelry is great for self-gifting — not only does it rep your birth month, but it also imbues you with its special properties, like peridot’s balance and harmony.

Moriah Stackable Peridot and Diamond Ring
BUY

Host A Dinner Party

Show off that recipe you just perfected by hosting a dinner party. Enjoy the fruits of your labor by busting out your chicest flatware, grabbing a few bottles of wine, and inviting over a group of your closest friends.

Concoct A Fanciful Cocktail (Or Mocktail)

Play mixologist from the comfort of your own kitchen and concoct a fancy cocktail or mocktail — the more complex, the better. Try incorporating fresh fruit and herbs, an edible glitter rim, or quirky ice cube shapes to keep things interesting.

Get A Massage

Take a break from the noise and indulge in an afternoon of blissful relaxation by booking a massage at your favorite spa. Be sure to make it worth your while and spoil yourself with add-ons like aromatherapy and hot stones, too.

Gift Yourself Something Sparkly

You don’t need to wait for someone else to buy you diamonds — there’s something empowering about gifting them to yourself. Choose a style that’s timeless, like a pair of dainty earrings, so you’ll never have to take them off.

Rainfall Diamond Cluster Earrings
BUY

Take A Long Bath

Spend the evening soaking in a long, lavish bath. Don’t forget to light your most luxurious candles, whip out the bath salts, and turn on your favorite true-crime podcast — pour yourself a glass of wine, too, why not.

Be Your Own Date

You know that hot new restaurant you’ve been googling the menu of all week? It’s time to book a reservation for one. Tonight, you’re going to be your own date and take yourself out for a lavish solo dinner.

Buy Fancy New Bedding

Quality bedding can make a world of difference when it comes to getting a proper night’s sleep, which is why you should never feel bad about splurging on a new duvet or sheets. For a more inexpensive upgrade, swap in some silk pillowcases.

Wear Your Most Luxurious Pajamas To Bed

...And then enjoy your fancy new bedding with equally fancy pajamas. Bust out your silkiest set and spritz your pillow with lavender essential oil for a truly blissful night’s sleep.

Ditch Your Phone & Go Outside

Anyone can benefit from a screen break, even if just for an afternoon. Instead of endlessly scrolling through your TikTok feed, spend some time in your local park and get to know the surrounding flora and fauna.

Go On A #HotGirlWalk

To make the most of your time outside, throw on a cute workout outfit and a feel-good playlist, and go on a #HotGirlWalk — and if you’re looking to get even more of an endorphin rush, consider a #HotGirlRun, instead.

Recite A Self-Love Affirmation

Make the time to speak a self-love affirmation into existence, whether you memorize it, write it on a sticky note, or set it as your phone alarm.

Spend A Lazy Day On The Couch

Grant yourself permission to do nothing but laze on the couch for a day. Consider it the perfect time to catch up on your favorite shows, read that book you’ve been trying to dive into, or take as many naps as your heart desires.

Order That Second Martini

Sometimes, treating ourselves can be as simple as ordering that second martini, so allow yourself to indulge a little. Make it a “New York Happy Meal,” and throw in an order of fries while you’re at it.

Have An At-Home Spa Day

You don’t have to splurge on a pricey day at the spa to show yourself some love. Bust out your favorite face masks, hair masks, and body scrubs, and spoil yourself from the comfort of home — perhaps add on a mani-pedi, too?

Change Up Your Hairstyle

Try out a new hairstyle, whether that entails an adventurous cut, dyeing it a different color, or styling it in a new way. Our hair is a powerful tool of self-expression; changing it up is a great way to commemorate a new chapter or milestone.

Up Your Necklace Layering Game

Whether you’re new to necklace layering or looking to add to your current collection, gift yourself something designed to last, like a solid 14k gold paperclip chain. It’ll fit in nicely with your existing pieces, or you can wear it on its own.

Cali Paperclip Chain Necklace
BUY

Indulge In A #GirlDinner

Tonight, feast on a #GirlDinner — aka a charcuterie board for one. Grab some artisanal cheeses, fancy cured meats, and all the accouterments your heart desires. You’re not busting out your cookware (...or cleaning it) tonight.

Take Time To Journal

Carve out some time from your busy day to gather your thoughts in your journal. Something as simple as writing out the things you’re grateful for can serve as a powerful daily ritual to kick off or end your day.

Treat Yourself...& Your Bestie, Too

Buy yourself and your bestie an *adult* friendship bracelet. Freshwater pearls, which symbolize love and loyalty, make for a meaningful and unique upgrade from traditional string and beaded iterations.

4mm Cultured Freshwater Pearl Bracelet
BUY

Ring In The New Moon

The new moon is a powerful time for intention setting. It’s rife with positive energy for calling in new opportunities and possibilities. Celebrate this monthly occurrence with a ring to match.

Mezzaluna Ice Blue Sapphire Open Ring
BUY

Take A Beach Day

Play hooky from work — okay, fine, request the day off — to spend a day at the beach. We all deserve a mid-week mental reset from time to time, and doing it among the sun, sand, and saltwater feels infinitely more special than being in bed all day.

Invest In "Forever" Jewelry

Pick a piece that you can wear forever and with anything, like a 14k white gold diamond bracelet that can elevate an outfit as simple as a tee and jeans.

Snowberry Diamond Bracelet
BUY

Expand Your Mind

It’s time to finally sign up for those classes you’ve always dreamed of taking. Enrich your mind (and form new hobbies) by learning French, making pottery, sewing your own clothing — anything beyond staring at a screen.

Hone Your Chef Skills

Tonight, hone your chef skills and take the time to perfect a new recipe. Enjoying a delicious meal you cooked all on your own — even if it’s as simple as leveling up your boxed mac and cheese — can be so rewarding.

Revamp Your Space

Take on a fun home improvement project to breathe new life into your space. Paint your walls a poppy color, put up a dedicated plant-baby shelf, or create good feng shui by rearranging your existing furniture in a new and fresh way.

Splurge On Fancy Glassware

Up your glassware game with some fancy new pieces, like a sculptural mug or a fluted coupe glass. Trust us: They’ll make your morning coffee or after-work cocktails much more fun to drink.

Pet An Animal

Nothing is more therapeutic than petting a cute animal, so if you’re in need of a dopamine boost, spend some time with your furry friends. Don’t have a pet of your own? Consider volunteering at your local animal shelter.

Plan A Vacation

Still have a week’s worth of vacation days to use before 2024? It’s time to finally plan that trip you’ve been putting off, whether it’s upstate or the Amalfi Coast. Go ahead and book your accommodations, and don’t skimp on the amenities.

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