Friday, July 23, 2021

How To Turn Your Imposter Syndrome Into An Advantage, According To 2 Beauty-Industry Vets

For all the now-well-known benefits of working from home, there are still certain small phenomena that can only occur in a physical office: rambling conversations at the espresso machine, scooting over in your roll-y chair to pester a favorite colleague, the particular type of friendships that form when you put a random assortment of people together for eight hours a day. But while we might lament having to maintain those connections digitally, imagine meeting a new colleague face-to-face just a handful of times before partnering with them to start a company.

Such was the case for Cary Lin and Angela Ubias, founders of Common Heir, a clean, plastic-free, high-performance skincare brand. The company’s chief executive officer and chief product officer, respectively, had been set up on a “blind phone-call date” by a mutual friend shortly before COVID-19 struck, leaving Ubias in Austin and Lin in L.A. Through countless online-coworking-sessions and repeated requests to “hop on a quick FaceTime,” the two beauty industry vets were able to successfully launch their Vitamin C serum, a concentrated formula to improve skin texture and brighten dark spots, in the form of a biodegradable, plant-based capsule.

Ahead, we’ve teamed up with Pandora Jewelry — whose Signature I-D Bangle was designed to be a reminder of what drives you — to share Ubias and Lin’s secrets for remote collaboration, how other women have shaped their journeys, and how they’ve reframed imposter syndrome and used it to their advantage.

Where did the idea for Common Heir come from?

Lin: “I had the inkling of the thought for Common Heir for several months after working in the beauty and consumer goods industry. I was walking on the beach in Santa Monica and picking up some plastic trash after having worked in the industry putting out millions and millions of products. It just hit me that I didn’t know where any of it ended up, and I started thinking about creating a brand that was going to make a meaningful difference that didn’t use any plastic packaging, something I really wanted that didn’t exist.”

Ubias: “I always call it a love match. Just in that first half-hour phone call, my face hurt from smiling so much — because both of us came from the beauty industry, we’d somehow identified the same white space. I was toiling away nights and weekends on Common Heir until May 2020, and I just found myself feeling passionate about the work I was doing there, not so much the work I was doing in my longterm role. The pause that the pandemic created for a lot of us was this opportunity to become hyperaware of the mark we’re leaving behind. Working on other people’s brands has been great, but this was an opportunity to work on something that feels like a representation of me and Cary.”

Common Heir was initially made possible because another woman connected you. How else have women in your personal and professional lives helped shape the brand?

Lin: “The reason we called the brand Common Heir is literally because Angela and I were looking at our own founder story. We don’t have this whole ‘childhood friends who met at camp and decided to do this together’ story. We genuinely did not know each other, and our personal and professional lives have been pretty different. But we wanted to focus on what we have in common, that feeling from that first phone call, which was like, ‘she understands.’ It was all about passing things down, inheriting things, and realizing that we have something we can give. Even though we’re so different, this is something we can work on together because we both really care.”

Ubias: “Immediately after college, I fell into working with amazing, really strong female founders and CEOS, and that’s certainly shaped who I am today. So there’s never been a second thought about how to pass that forward, because it’s so innate to my experience. With Common Heir, we’ve had so many amazing women around us who were so supportive and passionate. You can feel that emotion and the heartstrings running through the brand.”

Given the added challenges of a global pandemic and not being in the same location, what was the glue that held your relationship together as you launched your brand?

Ubias: “It was 1000% clear, open, and honest communication and what felt like being overly communicative at times because we didn’t have this foundational relationship to fall back on, like knowing how this is how this person works so I can benefit-of-the-doubt it — there was none of that. It sounds very cheesy, but to build the bond you need with a cofounder, there’s a personal aspect there, so it was making sure to do daily check-ins where we’d have Zoom open and work together or saying, ‘I’m feeling stressed about this, can we hop on a FaceTime.’ Without that, it would’ve been so easy for things to fall apart.”

Lin: “We’re both motivated to do things that are very different. We’re not rebels, per se, but we were both hungry to do something genuinely innovative in the space, and we thought that this wasn’t going to get built the way we envisioned if we didn’t do it. Macro-level, that’s what kept us going. Instead of achieving a big vision all at once, we hit little milestones and had little moments of grace that kept telling us, It’s a sign, we should keep going. Like, ‘Oh, we were able to raise a little bit more [funding], let’s get a photo shoot done.’ Or ‘Oh, it turns out we can do a photo shoot over text message.’ All these little things led us to, I guess we’re launching now.”

Celebrating wins while starting a business, no matter how small, sounds crucial for staying motivated. How do you like to celebrate your victories?

Ubias: “I tend to operate on a reward-based system, so it’s like ‘do this difficult thing, there’s a reward at the end.’ It wasn’t easy building this during the pandemic with such uncertainty, all these imposter-syndrome-driven things and actual tactical problems. We could only really look at the day ahead, more small-scale, tangible bits. Being able to check those off… that’s really important to celebrate because sometimes when you’re in the thick of it, you can only see what you can get accomplished today. That’s something I struggle with, just how grand some of the celebrations should be for launch or this or that, because Cary and I are both hyper-motivated individuals. With that territory, we’re constantly looking for ways to improve and find efficiencies. But I have a great network of friends and family and loved ones that will force me to take a step back and celebrate.”

Lin: “As a startup in the zero-to-one phase, think about a car — it can’t go without initial gas, you kind of have to generate your own momentum. You have to generate your own happy moments. It’s important to remember like, If we knew about this a year ago, we’d be super excited to get here. On some level, because of how scrappy it was when we started, it’s very existential in your first year as a business. It’s very hand to mouth. I think I always want to keep that humility in mind, that we could’ve so easily not been here.”

You’ve spoken about dealing with imposter syndrome, something a lot of women struggle with. What’s been helpful for you in working to overcome it?

Lin: “This is really top of mind for me, because we’ve recently had to go out there and seek fundraising. There’s massive imposter syndrome, and having the double whammy of being minority and female, sometimes it never feels like you’re what they want to invest in, that you’re convincing them. But other female founders that I look up to, I know they’re dealing with it as well, so we’ll pump each other up. And I’ll look at Angela like, ‘Yeah, we do know what we’re talking about.’ When we look at what we’re good at in our careers, this is a great expression of our talents, but we’re also first-time founders. There’s a massive fear of failure if you’re the token investment in someone’s fund that’s beauty or that’s minority — it’s a lot of pressure.”

Ubias: “I’m in a constant state of imposter syndrome. Once I accepted that, it shifted my thinking, in that it means I’m always going to have an opportunity to learn and grow and challenge myself. If you aren’t having some level of imposter syndrome, you might think you’re perfect. Part of me taking the leap to become a founder was wanting to challenge myself for my own growth and development. Everyone, regardless of career or title, feels this at some time, so talk about it and don’t make it this taboo thing, because it doesn’t lessen you. It doesn’t invalidate your experience to say, ‘I’m struggling with this today.’ Nobody actually knows what they’re doing, so it’s all okay.”

What advice do you have for others, especially those who are also women and a minority, who might be interested in starting their own beauty venture?

Ubias: “I’m not someone who took a really traditional path to beauty. I certainly didn’t go to school for cosmetic chemistry. In beauty specifically, that looks like a barrier to entry for a lot of folks, but it isn’t. There’s something to be said for rolling up your sleeves and putting in the hard work, and if it’s something you have a real passion for, reach out to people who are doing what you want to be doing. Because I can almost guarantee those people are willing to open doors and bust down barriers, because they already had to do so much to get to that visibility level. A lot of people genuinely want to help and are willing to open doors if you just take the chance and don’t get too in your head about things.”

Lin: “We don’t want to be the first and only. When we were growing up, there weren’t many founders who looked like us who we could look up to. So I want to encourage folks that if we can do it, they can totally do it. We’re not that special.”

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Got $2,000? If So, Have You Considered Buying Lady Gaga’s Inauguration Day Brooch?

Inauguration Day was packed full of show-stopping looks — from Kamala Harris’ purple Christopher John Rogers dress to Ella Emhoff’s Miu Miu coat and Bernie Sanders’ Vermontcore mittens. And yet, the one we still find ourselves thinking about most often is Lady Gaga’s Hunger Games-esque ensemble. Now, we can do more than just think about it. We can buy it, too (well, some of us can).

On Thursday, Schiaparelli, the French fashion house behind Gaga’s black-and-red gown and gold brooch from Inauguration Day, announced a partnership with the “Rain On Me” singer’s nonprofit Born This Way Foundation, which works to support the mental health of young people. As part of the partnership, Schiaparelli recreated Gaga’s dove brooch that the fashion house made for Gaga to wear to the Inauguration, originally designed to be a symbol of hope and peace. The recreation — which is available in four different sizes, starting at $795 and topping at $2,150 — is now for sale in Schiaparelli retail locations, as well as Dover Street Market and Bergdorf Goodman. Of course, that’s a pretty penny to spend on a brooch, but, then again, getting the Gaga loo doesn’t come cheap, especially when 100% of the proceeds will be donated to her foundation.

The dove symbol has long held a place of importance for the century-year-old Schiaparelli brand. According to a press release, the dove motif was first inspired by artists of the Dada and Cubism movements of which Elsa Schiaparelli was a part of. Specifically, a painting by Picasso called “Caged Birds,” from 1937, inspired the original Schiaparelli dove. Elsa herself wore a dove pin of her own design when she left Europe for the U.S. to escape World War II. It was a symbol of hope then, just as it was meant to be on Gaga on January 20.

“It is with great pride that we are able to contribute to Gaga’s foundation and the remarkable work it has done in the lives of young people everywhere, moving them towards more freedom, kindness, and love,” Daniel Roseberry, the house’s current creative director, stated in a press release. 

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Thursday, July 22, 2021

How To Channel Golf & Tennis Style This Summer (Actual Play, Optional)

We've got summer sports on the brain — namely, tennis and golf. Wimbledon wrapped earlier this month. The PGA Tour is underway. And, both sports will be in competition at the upcoming Olympics in Tokyo. But even if you're not spectating, we bet the golf and tennis looks have still been on your mind this summer.

That's because we're seeing the ultra-sporty style trend in a big way this summer. Both golf and tennis have traditionally been synonymous with prep culture. While that vibe is still prevalent, the styles are far more effortless, casual, and wearable than before. It's the latest iteration of the athleisurewear trend, and it has just the right mix of elevated polish and laid-back ease. Plus, with looks this fun and flirty, you can wear them anywhere — no court or links required.

Ahead, check out the elements of what makes for a stylish golf or tennis player — that is, minus the racquets and clubs.

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Workout Dresses


Not long ago, tennis dresses didn't come with built-in shorts or bras — a true abomination. We're awfully lucky to live in the era of the quick-dry, pull-on workout dress, many of which now comes fully equipped with inner bike shorts, pockets for tennis balls, and extra bust support.

Reformation Bella Ecomove Active Dress, $, available at Reformation


Athleta Match Point Dress, $, available at Athleta


Halara In My Feels Plus Size Dress, $, available at Halara

Workout Skirts & Skorts


Skorts used to mean "skirt in the front, shorts in the back." But someone had the genius idea to simply build in compression bike shorts under the skirt and make the whole thing look far more seamless while offering coverage. Be sure to grab a workout skirt (or skort, however you call 'em) for your next match. They're stretchy, high-waisted, and ultra attractive — even when you're working up a sweat storm.

Girlfriend Collective Moss Skort, $, available at Girlfriend Collective


Nike Dri-FIT UV Victory 17” Golf Skirt, $, available at Dick's Sporting Goods


Outdoor Voices Court Skort 4.5", $, available at Outdoor Voices

Crew Socks


Make no mistake — there's a certain style of sock needed to complete the tennis or golf look, and that is the high crew. The reason for this is so that sweat that's dripping down your legs can be absorbed by a higher-cut sock. (Ankle socks could never.) You've got a few extra inches of upper sock area to show off, so go ahead and select a snazzy pair.

Kule The Women's Tennis Sock, $, available at Kule


MCool Mary Ruffle Turn-Cuff Ankle Socks, 6 Pack, $, available at Amazon


H&M 5-pack Socks, $, available at H&M

Collared Polo Shirts


Ah, the polo shirt. It's classic, it's summery, it's athletic — and it deserves a spot in your wardrobe, even if you're not playing. The look of tennis and golf used to be dressier and far more refined, but we're especially loving the cropped, boxy collared polo shirt these days. (Though, we certainly don't mind the more fitted, buttoned-up look, either.)

Adidas Originals Monte Court logo cropped polo shirt, $, available at ASOS


Maeve Springtime Polo Top, $, available at Anthropologie


Everlane The Retro Jersey Polo, $, available at Everlane

Tennis Sneakers


Wearing proper tennis footwear is key. Whereas running shoes are built to get you moving (primarily) straight forward, tennis shoes are made to help you hustle from front to back, side to side, up and down, and skidding across. Off the court, then can be worn with your new tennis ensemble or paired with jeans for a comfy weekend look.

Nike NikeCourt Lite 2, $, available at Nike


Wilson Wilson Rush Pro 2.5, $, available at Zappos


Adidas ADIZERO UBERSONIC 4 TOKYO TENNIS SHOES, $, available at Adidas

Visors

Another place that golf and tennis looks often overlap? The visor. Players appreciate the visor because it not only keeps the sun out of their eyes but unlike the regular baseball cap or dad hat, the crownless style of the visor allows for better top-of-head ventilation. This preppy staple also is a sun-safe summer accessory: win/win.

COS MESH VISOR, $, available at COS


Lululemon Fast Paced Visor, $, available at Lululemon


Madewell Packable Straw Visor, $, available at Madewell

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Lady Gaga Just Wore Two Of Summer’s Biggest Swim Trends

Twelve years after she emerged from a swimming pool in latex for the ”Poker Face” music video, Lady Gaga is back to her old ways. On Wednesday, the “Rain On Me” singer posted a video of herself on Instagram mimicking the music video move. This time, she wore a star-shaped string bikini and a gold belly chain — two of this summer’s top trends. And while the current version was more Hot Girl Summer than American Horror Story, that didn’t hinder it from making a splash in the hearts of her many Little Monsters.

For the backyard production, Gaga chose a neon orange two-piece, which featured criss-crossed, floss-like ties, from the Armenian-Mexican mother-daughter design duo Lali and Layla. While her orange version is currently unavailable, the same style, called the Stella, is still in stock for $69 in red, fuschia, pistachio green, cyan blue, black, and white. In addition to her thick belly chain, she accessorized with a gold chain necklace and a pair of her signature statement shades from RetroSuperFuture.

The belly-chain-bikini look is a popular one these days, with Kylie Jenner, Kim Kardashian, Bella Hadid, Hailey Bieber, and more celebrities having all hopped aboard the Y2K-era body baubles this summer. Beyoncé has, too, worn a belly chain in recent months, though the “Lemonade” singer styled it with ready-to-wear, as opposed to beachwear. Both body chains and flossy bikinis — a favorite of EmRata’s — were also prevalent during Miami Swim Week, where hundreds of brands convened to present the top trends in swim- and beach-wear for the season ahead. Even Chanel approves of wearing chain-like body belts. 

Recreate the trending duo, which is now officially Gaga-approved, below. 

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