Sunday, December 11, 2022

29 Non-Traditional Engagement Rings For The Modern Bride

Welcome to Aisle Style, a series that features the most untraditional engagement ring trends, coolest bridal designers to know, and brides who walk to the beat of their own “Canon In D.” Buck the tradition and say I do to personal style — the aisle is yours.

While diamonds can be forever — specifically the sparkly white kind that instantly has you humming the first movement of “Palladio” — they’re not the only option for a ring on that finger. If your taste leans toward avant-garde, understated, or you simply don’t want a ring that looks like everyone else’s, turn to the best non-traditional engagement rings instead.

From colored gemstones to unusual orientations and settings that look like genuine works of art, tons of unique engagement rings abound from brands ranging from indie to world-famous. Unique stone cuts make for a reinvigorated approach to white diamonds if you’re on the fence between something timeless and distinctive. Meanwhile, geometric shapes like shields, hexagons, and kites ensure your ring is stand-out. On the more affordable end of the engagement ring spectrum, there are portrait cuts, which are flat and transparent, and alternatives like moissanite, lab-grown, or trendy salt-and-pepper diamonds. 

There’s even the option to rock a fanciful band instead of a stone ring, which is not only more understated but also practical and durable for everyday wear. Even more, a band is super versatile for stacking and interchangeable on other fingers, should you choose to upgrade your ring for an anniversary down the road. 

Then there are the non-traditional settings to consider: East-West, off-kilter, and suspended or floating settings will give even the most classic cuts like emerald, round brilliant, pear, and oval shapes a uniquely modern look. At the same time, knife-edge bands, bolder prongs, and flush-mount settings appear decidedly edgier, whether you embrace a minimalist or elaborate design. Finally, mixed-metal choices always equates to cool.

Of course, antique and vintage rings are the most sustainable and instantly gratifiable way to obtain a one-of-kind ring that no one else will have.

Ahead, discover 29 non-traditional engagement rings guaranteed to make you forget all about diamond solitaires. 

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An oval solitaire — one of the most traditional (and popular!) settings — feels unexpected with a yellow diamond center stone.

Bucherer Fine Jewellery Joy solitaire (price upon request), $, available at Bucherer
This two-stone design featuring brilliant-cut shield diamonds is a modern take on the recently popular Toi et Moi ring.

Mociun Alchemy Ring, $, available at Mociun
Never before has an emerald appeared so enchanting as this pear-cut stone nestled within a pavé band. It’s a flawless choice for those seeking color in their engagement ring. 

KatKim Emerald Trace Pavé Ring, $, available at KatKim
Eva Fehren’s signature edge and eye for delicate, geometric shapes come through in this inverted white trillion diamond suspended from a beveled rose gold heptagon band. 


Eva Fehren White Diamond Trillion Queen Ring, $, available at 1st Dibs
A floating marquise solitaire stone nestled within a delicate V-shaped band is incredibly eye-catching while simultaneously timeless. 

Vrai The Signature V Solitaire Ring, $, available at Vrai
What’s more striking than one Asscher-cut diamond? Two — set in an open-wrap design featuring two tapered baguettes and a rounded square band.

Ashley Zhang Margaret Asscher Cut Engagement Ring, $, available at Ashley Zhang
Embrace the chunky engagement ring trend with Azlee’s East-West-set hexagon diamond enveloped in a weighty yellow gold staircase setting. 

Azlee Empress Diamond Staircase Ring, $, available at Azlee
A spray of diamonds adds a modern touch to a vintage-inspired turquoise ring. 

Marrow Fine Turquoise & White Diamond Navette Ring, $, available at Marrow Fine
Traditional stone cuts are made new thanks to a Toi et Moi ring setting.

Ring Concierge Toi et Moi Engagement Ring, $, available at Ring Concierge
This ring is a perfect example of how a classically cut stone, like a pear, immediately appears non-traditional when set off-kilter on a simple band. Bonus points for an eye-catching color, like tawny. 


Aaryah Nyoka Ring, $, available at Aaryah
A chunky, vintage-inspired signet setting in an East-West orientation modernizes a classic marquise diamond — the perfect durable non-traditional engagement ring.   

Kinn The Eloise, $, available at Kinn
A black diamond is the ultimate non-traditional approach to a rose-cut round diamond set in a delicate recycled yellow gold setting. 



Catbird Odile, The Swan Supreme, $, available at Catbird
Made for the hopeless romantics, this heart-shaped diamond is made even more stunning with the addition of tapered baguette-cut side stones.

Graff Promise Heart Shape Diamond Engagement Ring baguette cut side stones, platinum, $, available at Graff
This ring, showcasing a rare and exotic brilliant round-cut Cornflower Blue Ceylon sapphire, is a total showstopper. If the alternative center stone weren’t enough, the geometric octagonal setting adds to its unique allure with a durable feel.

Marei Octavian Brilliant-Cut Cornflower Blue Sapphire Engagem, $, available at Marei
Another modern take on the storied Toi et Moi engagement ring that will appeal to demure tastes is this flush-mount design in a thick, but not overly chunky, band.

Mejuri Toi et Moi Diamond Ring, $, available at Mejuri
Asscher- and radiant-cut stones never looked as bold as in this pink sapphire-and-diamond combo. The rose gold setting takes things a step further for non-traditional types. 

Jemma Wynne Prive Pink Sapphire and Asscher Cut Diamond Ring, $, available at Jemma Wynne
A mix of floating stones on a domed gold band epitomizes modern bridal style. Even better, this Grace Lee design — featuring marquise, oval-shaped, and pear-shaped diamonds — comes in yellow gold, rose, and white gold options. 



Grace Lee Demi Demi Plus Oval, Marquise, Pear Ring, $, available at Grace Lee
For a minimal-meets-modern engagement ring, A.M. Thorne’s rose-cut, pear-shaped salt-and-pepper diamond is exceptional. 

A.M. Thorne Salt + Pepper Pear Diamond Ring, $, available at A.M. Thorne
Shahla Karimi’s ultra-delicate curved band is a spellbinding, non-traditional way to set off a classic brilliant-cut round diamond. 

Shahla Zaha Brilliant Wrap Ring, $, available at Shahla
Simplicity and distinctiveness combine in this Asscher-cut emerald solitaire. The North-South, East-West prongs are a captivatingly subtle detail.



ILA Spectrum Ring, $, available at Catbird
Lizzie Mandler’s East-West marquise diamond, set on a thin knife-edge band, is inspired by her mother’s wedding ring from the ’70s — a spectacular choice for those seeking an ultra-delicate ring with distinction. 



Lizzie Mandler Knife Edge Diamond & 18kt Gold Ring, $, available at MatchesFashion
This gray diamond ring is a winner for an avant-garde take on a brilliant round cut. The rose-gold prongs add another element of distinction.

Anna Sheffield Hazeline Solitaire Ring, $, available at Anna Sheffield
If you want a large stone on a budget, Mateo’s overlapping band pavé with a vibrant blue topaz stone at the center is it. 



Mateo Point of Focus 14-karat gold, topaz and diamond ring, $, available at Net-A-Porter
A double-band ring featuring an off-kilter pear diamond is peak non-traditional for those with a minimal sensibility. 


Jade Trau Sadie Diamond & 18kt Gold Solitaire Ring, $, available at MatchesFashion
Colored stones and unique shapes are among Seattle-based Valerie Madison’s signatures, like this bezel-set half-moon salt and pepper diamond.

Valerie Madison Bezel Half-Moon Salt and Pepper Diamond Engagement Ring, $, available at Valerie Madison
This seemingly suspended trillion-cut ring is not only unique enough on its own but — with a pave band that comes in white, rose, and yellow gold — also allows for some fun (and very modern and cool) stacking.

The Clear Cut Triple Threat Trillion Ring, $, available at The Clear Cut
Harwell Godfrey’s knife-edge design is weighty with plenty of brilliance if going the band route. The gold triangle details represent a compass motif as a subtle reminder of choosing a direction or path.

Harwell Godfrey Rosa Pave Knife Edge Band, $, available at Harwell Godfrey
In a world where minimalist solitaire rings reign supreme, this vintage-inspired cluster design (a look that originated in the Georgian era) feels decidedly fresh in a two-tone setting. 



Stone and Strand The Ava Ring in Yellow Gold, $, available at Stone and Strand
If you’re into timeless antiques with stand-out elements, look no further than this old European-cut diamond surrounded by lustrous rubies in a rose gold, platinum, and black rhodium setting. 



Erstwhile Ruby Wings Ring, $, available at Catbird

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Friday, December 9, 2022

5 Plus-Size Pant Trends That Are Anything But Basic

Recently, as I was doing my cold-weather clothing swap, I noticed that I had the basic staples covered but was lacking pants that truly reflected my sense of style. I wanted "main character energy" pants. If you're asking yourself, "What in the world are 'main character's energy' pants?!?" I simply mean pants that are the focal point of your outfit rather than simply a pair of basic bottoms that will go with anything.

 Don't get me wrong — I love and adore my trusty black leggings. After all, they are a staple in most of our wardrobes year-round. But the following styles are just as easy to wear and style, just with a bit more oomph.

Here are five of the hottest 'main character energy' types of plus size pants that you should consider adding to your closet, including sexy leather, bold metallic, and preppy printed trousers — because we think you deserve all the options!

Leather & Faux Leather Plus-Size Pants


When it comes to fall and winter wardrobe staples, a great pair of leather (or faux leather) pants are a must. Whether you chose real leather or vegan leather, these pants will keep you warm without sacrificing style. This year, you can practically find leather pant options in any style you can imagine — plus sizes included.

Ahead, you’ll see some top picks in plus size options, including work-friendly picks. If you are looking for a more sporty and casual option, check out the River Island faux leather leggings, which feature a skinny fit and elasticized waistband for all-day comfort.



NYDJ Plus Size Marilyn Faux Leather Jeans, $, available at Bloomingdale's


Maeve The Colette Faux Leather Pants, $, available at Anthropologie


River Island Plus Black Faux Leather Leggings, $, available at River Island


The Drop Theor Vegan Leather Trouser, $, available at Amazon


Ellos Skinny Leather Pants, $, available at Catherine's

Printed Plus-Size Pants


This pant category is so much fun. You can really show off your personality and unique sense of style; choose from a classic print pattern like the Velveteen Tartan pants from Talbots, or go for the grunge-inspired gothic rose print from ASOS. Another bonus perk that comes with wearing these printed beauties? They double as conversation starters.



Talbots Velveteen Straight Leg Pants - Tartan, $, available at Talbots


Lucy & Yak L.E. Alexa Trousers, $, available at Lucy & Yak


ASOS CURVE Pull On Kick Flare Pants in Grunge Floral Print, $, available at ASOS


Princess Polly Radiant Pants, $, available at Princess Polly


11 Honoré Devan Jogger, $, available at Dia & Co.

Plus-Size Wide Leg Trousers & Pants


Don’t be afraid of taking up space in wide-leg pants. I know that as plus-size people, we are often told what is and what isn't flattering and that looser styles should be avoided… but we are letting go of those archaic (and frankly fatphobic) fashion “tips.”  Personally, I have never gotten more compliments than when I wear wide-leg trousers! If you are still on the fence about grabbing a pair of wide-leg pants, or don't know where to look, check out these options.



Tamara Malas Partner Pant, $, available at Verishop


Melrose and Market Satin Pull-On Pants, $, available at Nordstrom Rack


Rebdolls Fall Favorite Corduroy Wide Leg Pants, $, available at Rebdolls


Nooworks Business Pant, $, available at Nooworks


Torrid Pull-On Wide Leg Stretch Lurex High-Rise Pant, $, available at Torrid

Metallic Plus-Size Pants


Shimmer and shine with these showstopping bottoms. The metallic trend is huge right now, and it's honestly easy to see why. Whether you don a more casual option, like the ones from A New Day, or chose the risque but oh-so-stunning metallic mesh pants (perfect for warmer climates, or to take with you on a beach vacation), you’ll be sure to turn heads.



Gabi Fresh x FTF Robyn Ultra High Rise Metallic Pants, $, available at Fashion to Figure


Forever21 Plus Plus Size Split Hem Leggings, $, available at Forever21


Fashion to Figure Bailey Metallic Mesh Pants, $, available at Fashion to Figure


NastyGal Plus Size Sequin Kick Flared Pants, $, available at NastyGal

Plus-Size Jeans


Jeans will never be out of style; they are staples for a reason. These versatile bottoms can go from casual to dressy with ease. Skinny jeans will always have a special place in our hearts, but don’t be afraid to make room for other styles like flares or straight legs, or jeans with embellishments. We picked the following plus-size jeans because they are anything but basic.



Madewell The Plus Perfect Vintage Straight Jean in Becker Wash: Button-Front Edition, $, available at Madewell


Universal Standard ComfortDenim Stovepipe Jeans, $, available at Universal Standard


Pilcro The Icon Flare Jeans, $, available at Anthropologie


Levi's 711 Skinny Women's Jeans (Plus Size), $, available at Levi's


Ashley Stewart Embellished Distressed Skinny Jeans, $, available at Ashley Stewart

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