Monday, January 22, 2024

All The Winter Fashion Items Our Team Swears By In 2024

Winter, it’s the dreariest season of them all. And when it comes to cold-weather fashion, it’s hardly a controversial opinion to say it’s the season hardest to be stylish for, too.

Fashion-wise, there’s little redemption for, aside from the comfy coats and warm knits. Yet it’s when we require the most functional and versatile clothing to actually protect us from the elements. Winter essentials are also some of the biggest investments in our wardrobes, making it a never-ending challenge to find just the right coat that looks and feels good but also somehow keeps you warm enough to actually enjoy your day. 

Luckily, the Refinery29 team has tried it all, from wool coats and knee-high boots to layer-friendly jeans and fitness-approved jackets. Before making your seasonal investments, take a look at some of the team’s winter must-haves. 

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Essential Antwerp Wool-Blend Coat


“I love coats and use them as focal points when styling my winter looks. As such, I add a new one (or a few!) to my collection every winter. This season, I’ve been wearing this checked number by Essentiel Antwerp nonstop (and getting compliments to match!). While the gray colorway is versatile enough to go with everything in my closet, the hot pink windowpane design and the high collar add elements of interest to the cozy and warm winter essential.” — Irina Grechko, Fashion Director

Essentiel Antwerp Grey windowpane check wool-blend coat, $, available at Essentiel Antwerp

Canada Goose Severn ½ Zip Sweater Kind Fleece


“My tennis era has pushed me to do things I never considered before, like playing outdoors in 40-degree weather. And this Canada Goose fleece jacket is the only thing keeping me going back to the courts this winter. The fleece material is thick enough that I don’t freeze, but still thin enough to allow for movement and breathability. Plus, the deep pockets are good to store balls and warm up my hands in between rallies.” — Frances Solá-Santiago, Fashion Writer


Canada Goose Severn ½ Zip Sweater Kind Fleece, $, available at Canada Goose

Cotton Citizen Mila Jean


“My pant wardrobe is filled with oversized styles, and winter is when my baggy denim truly shines. This pair from Cotton Citizen is unique because it has darting details at the knee and is slightly coated (the jeans feel almost waterproof), making the pants perfect for soggy winter days. Because I’m pretty petite, I roll them up to make a thick cuff at the bottom. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve worn them this season because they fit with everything in my closet and pair with all types of footwear like sneakers, flats, or loafers.”  — Kate Spencer, Senior Affiliate Strategist

Cotton Citizen Mila Jean, $, available at Cotton Citizen

Nature Sound Long Sleeve Tee


“Never underestimate the power of the perfect long-sleeved tee. I never seem to have enough (if any) in my wardrobe, so I’m building up my collection. ‘Tis the season for layering, after all, which for me means comfort above all else. This charcoal print tee is made from organic cotton and looks best when paired with low-waisted wide-leg jeans for a skater girl feel. Add fluffy mittens and butterfly hair clips to soften the look.” — Kelly Washington, UK Social Editor

Damson Madder Nature Sounds Long Sleeve Tee, $, available at Damson Madder

Susamusa Jasmine Dress 


“I vowed to stop impulse buying after scrolling through TikTok in 2024, but I made an allowance for this gorgeous dress, which I saw plastered all over my feed. Can you blame me? It’s the perfect A-line silhouette that can be styled in so many ways, whether it’s a chic ‘90s Calvin Klein way or in a ‘60s mod style (Priscilla fashion is definitely an influence!).” — Esther Newman, UK Affiliate Writer

Susamusa Jasmine Dress, $, available at Susamusa

66°North Dyngja Jacket


“This pink jacket gives the perfect amount of pop for those gray winter days. It encourages me to style it with bolder pieces like my leopard print jeans or a maxi skirt with boots. Bonus? The recycled down is very warm.” — Ebony-Renee Baker, UK Fashion Editor 


66°North Cropped recycled down jacket, $, available at 66°North

Ganni Wool Blend Herringbone Coat


“I had this oversized herringbone Ganni wool coat on my Christmas wish list, but when I checked on Black Friday, it was half off – and still is! — so I bought it for myself. It’s 1,000% upped my style game during a dreary winter, during which I am typically bundled into a puffer coat looking like that kid from A Christmas Story. But don’t take my word for it: my dog Bowie can’t keep his eyes off of it.” — Carli Whitwell, Senior Director of Editorial



Ganni Wool blend herringbone coat, $, available at LUISAVIAROMA

Mejuri Tube Oversized Hoops



"I love wearing my bigger, bolder earrings during the colder months as I find they help balance out all the layers and oversized silhouettes I tend to gravitate towards. The only oversized hoops I own are cheap and tarnished, and considering how much I wear them, they were well overdue an upgrade. These hoops are extremely lightweight to wear but still feel sturdy and made to last. The clicker closure is also a nice touch that makes them feel more secure and look seamless." — Kristine Romano, Associate Editor, Photo & Design


Mejuri Tube Oversized Hoops, $, available at Mejuri

Polène Numero Deuze Bag 


“Let me just tell you, when I heard that Polène was releasing a miniature version of their Cyme bag, I was over the moon. I've never been a tote bag girl, but Polène has crafted a style that isn't the typical boxy and rectangular shape but one in a cute flower silhouette with adjustable sides that you can fashionably cinch in. The Mini Cyme combines my love for timeless, dainty feminine accessories with its shape, camel hue, and delicate stitching. Plus, it can hold more than you can imagine and is equally great for brunch as travel (I recently wore it for an East Coast road trip).” — Vivien Lee, Affiliate Writer 

Polène Cyme Mini Bag, $, available at Polène

Kendall Ruffle Shirt 


“Trying to find colorful clothes in winter can sometimes feel like an uphill battle, but this shirt from Damson Madder is proving it can be done. Featuring long pinstripe sleeves and a statement frilled collar, this shirt is perfect for layering under a chunky knit and adding a pop of pink to my winter work wardrobe.” — Alicia Lansom, UK Associate Editor

Damson Madder Kendall Ruffle Shirt, $, available at Damson Madder

Alex Mill Alice Polo in Cashmere


“I am not a polo person so imagine my surprise when I fell in love with this cashmere number from Alex Mill. The long-sleeve piece is the perfect thin-but-warm sweater layer to wear underneath blazers and leather jackets but also holds its own with plain jeans thanks to the bright colorway.” — Irina Grechko, Fashion Director


Alex Mill Alice Polo in Cashmere, $, available at Alex Mill

Sleeper Pajama Set


"Winter is my hibernating period. I dress up less and try to spend my days in comfy fabrics. So, when I get invited to go out, I don't want to put on a show-stopping outfit. Instead, I go for my Sleeper pajama set, which is equal parts loungewear and party attire. Trust me, you won't want to wear anything else to go out in the winter." — Frances Solá-Santiago, Fashion Writer

Sleeper Sleeper feather detail pajama set, $, available at Farfetch

Wonderwelly Tall Wellington Boots


"These are my ride-or-die shoes for wet, wintery, muddy walks throughout the season. They’re bio-mechanically designed to move with and support your feet, and are super cushioned so they feel so comfortable to walk in, whether that’s for one mile or ten.” — Esther Newman, UK Affiliate Writer

Wonderwelly High-Performance Tall Wellington Boots, $, available at FitFlop

Topshop Denim Cinch Waist Shirt


“I’m really into structured denim right now, and this shirt from Topshop is my wardrobe’s latest addition (after a strapless denim midi dress and my denim midi skirt, also from Topshop). The cinched waist gives the top a more intentional edge than the run-of-the-mill denim button-up and is just as versatile, if not more so. So far I have paired mine with everything from yoga pants (see here) to oversized cargo trousers.” — Ebony-Renee Baker, Fashion Editor

Topshop Topshop denim cinch waist shirt in indigo, $, available at ASOS

Nobody's Child Dark Denim Maxi Skirt


"I’ve been on the hunt for the perfect denim maxi skirt — and this one from Nobody’s Child ticks all my boxes. It’s made from thick and durable organic cotton and comes in the perfect deep indigo blue, making it a timeless staple that I know I’ll wear all year round. The A-line shape is especially perfect in the winter as I can tuck in sweaters and wear thermal leggings underneath without it feeling (or looking) too bulky. I genuinely can’t fault it!" — Kristine Romano, Associate Editor, Photo & Design


Nobody's Child Dark Denim Maxi Skirt, $, available at Nobody's Child

Lamara London The Roma Bag


“Who doesn’t want a beautiful handbag that you can also use to reapply your lipstick? Silver had a major moment in 2023 and I’m carrying it straight through to the new year with this statement mirrored baguette bag from Lamara London.” — Alicia Lansom, Associate Editor

Lamara London The Roma Bag, $, available at Lamara London

Larroudé Kate Boots


“Cowboy boots aside, I’ve never worn knee-high boots before last year. If you’ve seen me over the last few months, you wouldn’t believe that though, as I have been wearing this pair from Larroudé on repeat (see slide 11). The croc print is super sleek and stylish, going with everything from skirts to pants, while the heel is comfortable to get me through a whole day on my feet.” — Irina Grechko, Fashion Director

Larroudé Kate Boots, $, available at Shopbop

Katie Faux Fur Coat


“The mob wife aesthetic is taking over this winter, with all-black leather fits, animal print and, of course, gigantic faux fur coats. As someone who is freezing 24/7, I couldn’t be more obsessed. Using recycled faux fur made from plastic bottles, this over-the-top coat from Jakke is everything I’ve been searching for: sitting slightly oversized and sporting huge fluffy lapels. Catch me pretending to be Sharon Stone at my local Italian restaurant very soon.” — Alicia Lansom, Associate Editor 

Jakke Katie Faux Fur Coat, $, available at Jakke

Damson Madder Hickory Skirt

"While some items are seasonal, the best are the ones you can wear practically all year. This skirt from Damson Madder is warm enough to bring some color to winter fits, but the pink, white and red palette reminds me of the first hints of springtime. Bonus: it has front and back leg splits, so you don’t need to waddle like a duck on your way to the function. If you’re between sizes or prefer a looser fit, the brand recommends you size up. I’ve found my new favorite skirt and I’ll be wearing it to death in 2024." — Kelly Washington UK Social Editor

Damson Madder Hickory Skirt, $, available at Damson Madder

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Friday, January 19, 2024

Spoil Your Favorite People With These Luxury Valentine’s Day Gifts For Under $100

Looking to go all out for Valentine's Day? If you can't book a once-in-a-lifetime romantic getaway, your next best bet is to swing for the fences with your gift. We love sweet treats just as much as the next person, but this list takes a look at a few truly show-stopping options for less than $100. We included some of the classics, such as timeless pearl jewelry, along with trendier picks like the latest beauty products. And don't worry, these aren't just for your romantic partner. If you want to treat your bestie to that ultra-soft Sézane beanie they've been eyeing, we thought of that, too. 

One thing is for sure: These gifts, no matter their purpose, will make your recipient feel truly spoiled come February 14. Browse the best luxurious Valentine's Day gifts under $100 ahead.  

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Gisou Deep Treatment Duo


When it comes to hair products, Gisou has our hearts. The Deep Treatment set consists of the viral Honey Infused Hair Oil and Hair Mask. Smooth and hydrated strands are only five minutes away.

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Gisou Deep Treatment Duo, $, available at Gisou

Cozy Earth Plush Lounge Socks


Do you have a significant other who gives you daily doses of shock as they try to warm their cold feet against you? Keep their toes toasty warm with Cozy Earth's lightweight Plush Lounge Socks. The three-pack is available in a mix of neutral and pigmented colors.

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Cozy Earth Plush Lounge Socks, $, available at Cozy Earth

UGG Leather Sheepskin Vent Gloves with Conductive Tech Palm


If you've scrolled through TikTok, you've realized by now that the Tasman slippers have been the latest rage. Give the shoe a rest and gift your loved one a pair of sheep fur-cuffed leather gloves instead.

Shop Ugg at Zappos

Ugg Leather Sheepskin Vent Gloves with Conductive Tech Palm, $, available at Zappos

Anthropologie Waterfall Red Wine Glasses, Set of 4


Toast the season of love with these tulip-shaped wine glasses. The graceful glassware is specially crafted into a silhouette to enhance the flavor and aroma of your favorite wine, and the hand-painted crystalline in 24k gold only adds to their beauty.

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Anthropologie Waterfall Red Wine Glasses, Set of 4, $, available at Anthropologie

Michael Michael Faux Fur Pull-Through Scarf


Bring all the trendsetters in your life up to speed with a faux-fur scarf that exudes 2024's mob wife aesthetic. Fortunately, Michael Kors has designed a luxurious scarf that is an easy way to hop on the trend.

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MICHAEL Michael Kors Faux Fur Pull-Through Scarf, $, available at Michael Kors

Sézane Paul Beanie


Run, don't walk. Sézane has released three new shades to its cult-favorite beanie: marigold yellow, pastel yellow, and pop pink. Based on how all the other 13 shades are out of stock, we have a feeling these won't be available for long.

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Sézane Paul Beanie, $, available at Sézane

Shashi Bianca Pearl Earrings


Double trouble, but make it elegant. Gift your pearl-loving bestie a pair of these Shashi's Bianca Pearl Earrings — they'll wear 'em nonstop.

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Shashi Bianca Pearl Earring, $, available at Shashi

Dior's Backstage Glow Face Palette


Dior's Backstage Glow Face Palette has it all: highlighter, blush, and eyeshadow. The four luminous shades are customizable for anyone to use as fit, from a healthy natural glow to a runway-esque shimmer.

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Dior BACKSTAGE Glow Face Palette, $, available at Sephora

Diptyque Baies (Berries)


Glow up your giftee's home with one of Diptyque's bestselling candles. The harmonious blend of blackcurrant berries and roses will transform their home into a spa-like atmosphere.

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Diptyque Baies (Berries), $, available at Diptyque

Quay Australia Level Up 51mm Square Sunglasses


Spring is not that far off, and preparing with a new pair of sunnies or two never hurt. Quay has created bold square sunglasses in a gradient chocolate brown hue that'll coordinate with all your loved ones' new 'fits.

Shop Quay Australia at Nordstrom

Quay Australia Level Up 51mm Square Sunglasses, $, available at Nordstrom

Muji Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser 10 Oz.


Treat your loved one to relaxing nights of rest with Muji's Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser. After receiving this as a gift, I've gone to bed faster, and my nights have been more peaceful with the welcoming scents of Muji's essential oils. The timers and adjustable LED lights are also perfect as nightlights. Don't miss your chance to grab it, as it's currently $30 off.

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Muji Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser 10 Oz, $, available at Muji

Le Creuset Mini Cocotte with Gold Heart Knob


Make Valentine's Day a bit sweeter with Le Creuset's Mini Cocotte. The tiny Dutch oven is glazed with a radiant cherry red and topped with a gold heart-shaped knob for an endearing touch.

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Le Creuset Mini Cocotte with Gold Heart Knob, $, available at Le Creuset

Valentino Donna Born In Roma Coral Fantasty Eau De Parfum


I might be biased since I own this fragrance myself, but trust me: It's a perfume any floral-loving person will adore. Notes of juicy kiwi are enhanced with a subtle hint of rose and an infusion of jasmine for a bright, balanced scent.

Shop Valentino at Sephora

Valentino Donna Born In Roma Coral Fantasy Eau de Parfum, $, available at Sephora

Caraway Circle Pan


Valentine's Day is the holiday of sweet treats, and what better way to show your favorite baker that you love them than with a new-and-improved circle pan set? The 9-inch ceramic-coated duo is available in nine attractive hues.

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Caraway Circle Pan, $, available at Caraway

Jo Malone English Pear and Freesia Home Candle


Of all Jo Malone's delicate scents, English Pear and Freesia is one of the most well-recognized. It'll transform the atmosphere around them with a luxurious, clean scent. Plus, look beautiful when not in use, whether it's on their coffee table, desk, or vanity.

Jo Malone London English Pear & Freesia Candle, $, available at Bloomingdale's

Jenni Kayne Cooper Cardigan


We'll forever rave about Jenni Kayne's Cashmere Cocoon Cardigan, but today we're here to introduce you to the Cooper Cardigan. Unlike its more famous older sibling, this sweater has a structured hourglass silhouette and a very slight bell sleeve for an eye-catching piece. Chic and cozy, what more could a Valentine want?

Jenni Kayne Cooper Cardigan, $, available at Jenni Kayne

Cozy Earth Comforters


Luxury usually has a pricetag, but is there anything more luxurious than a good night's sleep? While you can't guarantee your recipient eight solid hours of Zzzs, you can give them a headstart with a truly decadent comforter.

Cozy Earth's Comforter in Silk is ultra soft and lush, with 100% Mulberry Silk, and is covered with premium bamboo viscose. That's not all, as it has temperature-regulating benefits, comes in three sizes (twin, queen/full and king), and is an all-season favorite.

Cozy Earth Cozy Earth Comforters Queen/Full Size, $, available at Cozy Earth

Rimowa Personal Polycarbonate Cross-Body Bag


Rimowa is one of the most luxurious travel accessory brands out there, easily at the top of many traveler's wishlists. But guessing what luggage size a frequent flier needs might be tricky, which is why we recommend checking out the brand's travel-ready totes and bags.

Rimowa's new sleek full-grain Italian leather cross-body bag is a mini replica of the label's suitcase, with two open compartments, a zipped pocket, and three credit card slots. Go big or go home this Valentine's Day.

Rimowa Polycarbonate Cross-Body Bag, $, available at Rimowa

J.Crew Cashmere Classic-Fit Crewneck Sweater


Everyone deserves a soft cashmere sweater, and J.Crew has the a relaxed-fit everyday style for them (or you) to wear daily. Stick with the neutral hues or opt for a more vibrant statement piece — there's one for everyone's color palette.

J.Crew Cashmere Classic-Fit Crewneck Sweater, $, available at J.Crew

FRAME Relaxed Straight Cargo Pants In Noir


Meet the luxurious twin to denim cargo pants. They exude the same laid-back aura but with a sassy and chic flair. The silky and shimmery pants are perfect for your career-oriented friend who has that confident boss persona.

Frame Relaxed Straight Cargo In Noir, $, available at Frame

Mejuri Essential Pearl Necklace


Heirloom-quality jewlery will be as a long and treasured reminder of the gifter. Mejuri's pearl necklace is a thoughtful token that your loved one will cherish and wear for years.

Mejuri Essential Pearl Necklace, $, available at Mejuri

Stella McCartney 55MM Butterfly Sunglasses


Treat your most stylish bestie to a pair of polished designer sunnies. This pair from Stella McCartney has a feminine tortoiseshell butterfly frame that will elevate any outfit — long sleeve sweater dresses or matching sweatsuits. 

Stella McCartney 55MM Butterfly Sunglasses, $, available at Saks Fifth Avenue

Cult Gaia Hera Nano Knotted Embellished Shoulder Bag


Dazzle your partner with a trendy, slouchy bejeweled shoulder bag from Cult Gaia. All the street style stars have one in their wardrobe, so you know they'll have plenty of style inspo.

The frosted silhouette is multidimensional and can be classy for date nights, graceful weddings, and chic for Friday night outings.

Cult Gaia Hera Nano Knotted Embellished Shoulder Bag, $, available at Neiman Marcus

Muji Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser


Your beauty or skin care-obsessed friend will be thrilled to discover that they can turn their home into a relaxing spa. All you have to do is add a face mask and one of Muji's pure essential oils for an instant peaceful day of self-care.

Muji Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser, $, available at Amazon

Bottega Veneta Green Zippered Card Holder


Upgrade their cardholder to a Bottega Veneta and watch them gasp. Choose none other than the brand's green zippered cardholder that features the signature intreccio-woven design and iconic hue. The color and style are beloved by celebs like Hailey Bieber and Kendall Jenner.

Bottega Veneta Green Zippered Card Holder, $, available at SSENSE

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What’s Really Behind TikTok’s “Mob Wife” Trend

Not long ago, TikTok was obsessed with the idea of living in a Nancy Meyers movie, owning Le Creuset cookware, and dressing like a “coastal grandmother.” There was also the short-lived romcom-core trend, which invited women to embody Y2K movie heroines via ruffled dresses and espadrilles. And last year, it was all about attaining “quiet luxury” and “clean girl” aesthetics, which dominated the viral fashion and beauty trends with their minimalist and restrained approach. 

Less than a month into 2024, the revolving door of TikTok-influenced trends has brewed a new aesthetic: the mob wife.  “Clean girl is out, mob wife era is in,” declared Kayla Trivieri, a New York-based creator, said in a recent video that unleashed the current boom. “We’re wearing fur coats all winter.” The hashtag #mobwife has grown to over 100 million views in the last few weeks, with creators sharing their rendition of this archetype. “I call it ‘mob wife energy,’” says creator and author Sarah Arcuri, who describes herself on her social media accounts as “Mob Wife Aesthetic CEO.” “It’s more of an attitude.” 

@ktrivz manifesting a 24 carat diamond tennis necklace to match my mob wife energy #greenscreen ♬ original sound – kayla trivieri

Mafia culture has long served as fashion inspiration, thanks mostly to pop culture depictions of Italian-American families in The Sopranos, Goodfellas, and The Godfather and more. While the men are surely influential (Tony Soprano’s pinky rings live in my mind rent free), it’s the women — often portrayed as housewives or mistresses — who are remembered for their opulent fashion. Clad with fur coats and layered gold jewelry, the mob-woman look exemplifies a unique type of aspirational wealth and ostentatious glamour, a stark contrast to the quieter trends we’ve seen in the past few years. 

For women like Arcuri, the style has been a recurring reference throughout their whole lives. The 29-year-old creator has been sharing “mob wife” style videos since 2022, including tutorials on how to dress the part and historical deep dives on mafia culture, and says that the moniker was never intentional but rather a way for her to describe her personal style. “Clean girl was just not for me, it never felt like me,” she says, referring to the trend, which entailed minimal makeup and fashion. “I’m just going to embrace my style.” Arcuri says the character of Ginger in the 1995 film Casino is a constant reference for her outfits, which she also describes as “‘80s bold glamour.” She also points to The Sopranos‘ Carmela Soprano as a “daytime” inspiration. 

Trivieri, who grew up in Toronto in an Italian family, remembers seeing women, especially older ladies, using this style when she was a kid. “It was just part of Italian culture,” she says. Now, living in New York City, she’s become the poster creator for the “mob wife” trend boom. Her video, which was first published on January 6, has since amassed over one million views and has been shared over 12,000 times. Trivieri says that she decided to coin the “aesthetic” after seeing photos of celebrities like Kendall Jenner and Hailey Bieber dressed in fur coats in the last few months, which she took as a sign that, after years of “clean girl” and “quiet luxury,” people were ready to jump back into glamour mode, a shift that’s also exhibited through the return of the “Indie Sleaze” trend from the 2010s. “Everything in fashion comes full circle,” she says. “A lot of us are ready to go out.” While TV and film references are cited on most “mob wife era” TikTok videos, Trivieri says the style makes her think of an ad campaign drafted by the Italian brand Attico and Sant Ambreous in 2022, which featured elder Italian women wearing cow-print and fur coats and oversized sunglasses. “People think of the show Mob Wives, but for me it makes me think of old Italian ladies, which is nice because we don’t really highlight older ladies in fashion so much,” she says. 

387931 12: Maureen and Steven Van Zandt star as Gabriella and Silvio Dante in HBO’s hit television series, “The Sopranos” (Year 3). (Photo by HBO)

But the pop culture references are what comes to mind for the majority of people. And The Sopranos is a constant. Even before the “mob wife era” trend kicked off on TikTok, The Sopranos had been reignited on the internet, thanks largely to pandemic-era rewatches and the podcast Talking Sopranos, hosted by Michael Imperioli and Steven Schirripa. Now, as the show turned 25 years old in January 2024, costume designer Juliet Polcsa can’t quite understand why the show’s style is still so relevant more than two decades after its release. But she says it may have something to do with the show not being a “strict mob story.” “It was about family, you can see yourself in that,” she says. “Once you’re there, you become a fan, and like any fan you want to emulate.” 

Polcsa also says that the style’s success may have been prompted by the fact that she, alongside the show’s creator David Chase, was intent in portraying reality and not stereotypes. Back then, she got to see it all herself on research trips to Brooklyn’s Bensonhurst neighborhood, as well as at malls in the northern New Jersey area. She recalls finding a store in Paramus, New Jersey, called Caché, where she said to herself “this is it.” “It had assurance to it and it was fun,” she says. 

(L-R) Actors Michael Imperioli & Drea De Matteo in scene from HBO cable TV series The Sopranos. (Photo by Anthony Neste/Getty Images)

Both Trivieri and Arcuri are approaching the “mob wife” trend with a similar perspective. “Trends are just supposed to be fun,” says Trivieri. “We lose sight of those things in overanalyzing trends.” While the phenomenon is taking off on TikTok, it’s also received a lot of criticism, especially for its depiction of Italian-American culture and for potentially glorifying organized crime. Not to mention the consistent depictions of violence, misogyny, and LGBTQ+ discrimination played out in most mob pop culture portrayals. Arcuri, who wrote a book, titled in The Owner & The Wife, set in the ‘80s heyday of the New York mob families, says that she understands why it’s hitting a nerve for people. “I’m not a fan of when people are trying to play a ‘mob wife’ and making a joke out of it,” she says. “That’s not the focus, it’s more of the confidence.” Trivieri agrees. “TikTok is not the place for nuanced conversations,” she says. “No one is forcing you to participate in the trend.”

Still, for those planning to partake, Arcuri, who collects items from the ‘80s, says it’s a good trend to jump on the secondhand market. And even if they want to do without the “mob wife” term, Trivieri says “you can still take things of that style and that time [as inspiration].”

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As a person who stands at 5’3″, I understand firsthand the struggle of finding a solid pair of jeans that doesn’t need further alteration besides the usual cuff. While I’ve personally become very comfortable with buying regular-length denim and slicing the bottoms with a pair of fabric shears, I get that not everyone is into the frayed hem look. Additionally, not everyone has the budget or time to take their pants to a tailor who can preserve the original hem.

You’ll always meet fashion people who swear by a certain style of jeans or only wear ones from a particular brand, but even when you compare and contrast denim with other short-legged folks, the search for the best petite jeans feels like a never-ending game of trial and error — after all, what works for one body type won’t necessarily work for another. (Though we always love fantasizing about a Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants moment.)

So, ahead — at the recommendation of fellow short fashion colleagues, friends, and shop reviewers — we present a list of our current favorite petite denim styles. This isn’t a perfect or complete list by any means, but we did aim to cover brands that offer denim styles in an array of washes, fits, stretch levels, and silhouettes that are specifically suited for those who are 5’4″ and under. These jeans are also designed to be worn straight off the racks with no tailoring needed.

But, before you embark on your denim search, I highly suggest you first find your inseam and keep it handy in your Notes app — this number will be immensely helpful when looking at the size and fit details of a product. To determine your inseam, grab your favorite pair of (non-drop-crotch) pants and measure the distance between the crotch and bottom hem. For a true petite style, this likely won’t be any longer than 27 inches, although some brands like to think that 30 inches is a petite cut — which, ahem, it’s not. (Most short folks I know have inseams in the 23–26-inch range.) With this inseam measurement, you’ll have the power to find jeans that’ll actually fit your bottom half; add an inch for a longer length or remove an inch for a high-water look. And be sure to flex the classic trick of searching for “cropped” or “ankle” jeans at any retailer that offers those filters — y’know, the jeans that are cropped on taller folks but full length on petites. Consider this an easy hack to quickly sort the short stuff.

Frame

Frame Le Pixie High Flare, $228
Unlike Rag & Bone, which tends to favor rigid denim, Frame is a premium brand that doesn’t shy from super-stretchy denim. (This one’s for fans of jeans that truly give.) For those who are on the shorter side, Frame even has a collection called Le Pixie, denim styles made for those 5’3″ and under. It’s a revelation, considering that petite folks rarely are able to find silhouettes like palazzo or super wide-leg — and Frame offers flares that can actually accommodate anything from sneakers to cowboy boots.

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Abercrombie & Fitch

Abercrombie & Fitch High Rise Skinny Jeans, $89
A&F specializes in size-inclusive denim, with styles available in sizes 23–37 in extra-short, short, regular, long, and extra-long lengths. No kidding! (You can read more about the brand’s much-adored denim rebrand in our review here.) For petites, this is great news. For instance, this TikTok fave comes in both Short (25.5 inches) and Extra Short (23.5 inches). Writes one 5’1″ reviewer, “The material is durable and thick but has a little bit of stretch to it which is my perfect combo. It’s enough to make you feel sucked in but stretchy enough to not have that rigid, stiff feel. Extra short is my perfect length and shows the perfect amount of my ankle so it works great with booties and boots that go a little higher up on the leg.”

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J.Crew

J.Crew Curvy Vintage Slim-Straight Jean, $128
Naturally, we asked our friends at the aptly named Small Girls PR to tell us about the denim they swear by. Mary Whitlock, the VP of the fashion and lifestyle firm, dishes this J.Crew style is the one for her: “I am 4’11” and curvy, so I have a very hard time finding petite jeans and these are the only jeans that have fit me without needing to be tailored in all of my years on this planet.” Plus, the brand has an impressive filtering system where under the Size & Fit category, you can select Petite or you can search by “Length” and select “Cropped” or “Ankle.”

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Anthropologie

Maeve The Colette Denim Cropped Wide-Leg Jeans, $130
If you are looking for non-traditional, petite-friendly jeans, Anthropologie has quite a selection. The brand stocks plenty of fashion-forward styles like wide-leg paper-bag denim, dramatic boot cuts, and colorful cropped jeans. You can find plenty of standard options as well from house brands like Pilcro and beloved denim labels like Joe’s Jeans and Good American.

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Madewell

Madewell Petite High-Rise Stovepipe Jeans, $138
If you didn’t know that Madewell has a whole Petite Perfect Vintage Jean collection (offering every kind of wash color imaginable), you do now. These best-selling petite-fit jeans come highly recommended by Refinery29’s beauty and wellness writer, Karina Hoshikawa, who raves about the 25-inch inseams and lived-in vintage feel.

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Shopbop

AGOLDE Riley High Rise Straight Crop Jeans, $208
While Shopbop is a clothing retailer and not a denim brand, it still makes this list because of its detailed sizing measurements and easy-to-use denim filter: Under the Clothing category, you can sort its massive denim collection by Cropped Jeans or Ankle Jeans. One of Shopbop’s most popular denim brands is AGOLDE, and this cropped jean has a very specific 25.25-inch inseam that petites love. “I’m 5’1″, 34B, 123 lbs. (hips/butt) and a true size 27 in all the other denim I own,” writes one reviewer. “I think people need to realize, that Rise and Inseam will re-adjust your waist sizing[,] so I’m thankful Shopbop lists both of those because they matter for petite girls like me […] Also, being 5’1″ the inseam of 25.25 fits me like an actual pant (not cropped). Love the quality of this style and wash, you won’t be disappointed if you get your sizing right. Trust me!”

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Everlane

Everlane The Way-High Jean, $118
Everlane takes its jeans selection seriously — it even boasts a whole denim guide. While you can’t conduct a general, one-filter search for petite jeans on the Everlane site, click around and you’ll see that many of the brand’s best-selling pairs are offered in a variety of lengths, like The Way-High Jean, which has an inseam option of 25.5 inches. Absolute chef’s kiss.

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AYR

AYR The Pop, $225
It’s quite rare for a denim brand to offer two petite lengths (let alone one), but AYR is all about providing options. Customers have their pick of a 25- or 27-inch inseam, which may contribute to this jean’s sell-out power. Currently ranking a 4.7 out of 5 stars from 1,350 reviews, the jeans have petite denim lovers saying things like, “These are the most comfortable jeans I’ve ever tried on, and I have tried soooo many designer brands. […] I am 5’2” and 112 lbs. and I got a size 26 with the shorter inseam which is perfect. I am usually wearing leggings on the weekend but so happy that I have a pair of jeans that is just as comfortable!”

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Gap

Gap High Rise Cotton ’90s Loose Jeans, $89.95 $71
Don’t sleep on Gap jeans — they’re better than ever. Plus, you can filter your search by “Length” (select “Ankle”) for easy browsing. You also have your choice of selecting Regular, Petite, or Tall on individual product pages. This ’90s loose jean comes in a gloriously petite inseam of 27.5 inches. Writes one reviewer, “I was looking for a pair of loose/baggy jeans which is the new look. These were perfect since they are not overwhelmingly loose/baggy like many of the other designers are showing. These are very flattering and designed for those under 5’5″ who want the baggy style but cannot wear the baggy jeans designed for tall individuals. The side leg slit is an added design feature which is very flattering!”

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Banana Republic

Banana Republic The Slim Jean, $110
It’s easy to get lost in Banana Republic’s Denim Shop because there are tons of styles available in all washes and shapes, from skinnies to flares. (For the petite goods, head over to the Size category, and you have either the option of searching by “Petite” or by “Short.”) Once you start poking around, you’ll plenty of sleek styles such as these slim jeans with a 26-inch inseam.

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Old Navy

Old Navy Extra High-Waisted Non-Stretch Black Balloon Ankle Jeans for Women, $44.99 $30.99
Just like its “older sister” brand, Gap, Old Navy offers a similarly easy-to-use sorting system, which you can do so by Length (select Ankle and Cropped). This petite style has a 26-inch inseam, which allows even the most petite of gals to experience some level of cropped-ness. Says one pint-sized customer, “I love these jeans, they fit beautifully at the waist and then don’t touch you anywhere else till your ankle. Perfect!”

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Lee

Lee Relaxed Fit Straight Leg Jean, $44
Lee, the heritage denim brand, also offers petite inseams — but you’ll find that these petite lengths are slightly longer at 27.5 inches, which is ideal for those with longer legs or for people who want to wear full-length jeans with, say, heeled booties. Plus, as a few reviewers have pointed out, it’s difficult finding rigid denim jeans in plus sizes, and this classic style had a celebrated comeback. Writes one reviewer: “The 100% cotton construction is excellent! They are very comfortable. It is difficult to find plus-sized jeans that are 100% cotton that also fit very well. I am so happy I was able to find them. Lee, thank you for bringing back these 100% cotton jeans.”

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Rag & Bone

Rag & Bone Wren High-Rise Straight, $255 $126
One solid maker of premium American denim is Rag & Bone, which mostly releases skinny-to-baggy jeans with straight-ish legs in varying rises. There are plenty of Ankle and Cropped styles to be found in the brand’s jeans department, with a petite-friendly length of a 27-inch inseam.

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Levi’s

Levi’s Wedgie Straight Women’s Jeans, $98 $69.98
Bianca Caampued, the five-feet-tall co-founder of Small Girls PR, tells us, “Before owning the agency, I was someone raised by and working at fashion magazines — in which Levi’s was always the editor-approved gold star of denim. Luckily for me, the brand adjusts by leg length and not just waist width, so I can browse by 26-inch inseams specifically.” Caampued has two immediate go-tos: the Wedgie Straight and the 501, both of which she assures no hemming or is cuffing needed.

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Still Here

Still Here Childhood Jeans, $235
Still Here jeans have an endorsement from R29’s very own Senior Partnership Manager, Kate Spencer, who stands at a petite but mighty 5’1″. She loves how “the co-founder/creative director, Sonia Mosseri, is quite petite and produces most of the brands’ styles down to a size 22, which is pretty rare in the denim landscape and wildly amazing for smaller-framed people.” If that isn’t a great endorsement for petite-friendly jeans, I don’t know what is. Kate also recommended the Tate as another petite-friendly option as it’s one of the brand’s more cropped cuts.

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RE/DONE

RE/DONE High Rise Stove Pipe, $265
RE/DONE is a denim brand that reworks and refurbishes vintage Levi’s into silhouettes that are better suited for modern body types. It means you can expect lots of ’70s-inspired rigid denim jeans on the site. This pair, with a 27-inch inseam, comes recommended by R29 Senior Partnership Manager Kate Spencer who has a particular affinity for high rises, a looser leg, and zero stretch.

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Reformation

Reformation Cynthia High Rise Straight Cropped Jeans, $148
Reformation isn’t known for denim, but the brand’s Petites section is definitely worth a browse if you’re into trend-forward, going-out styles — without fail, there’s always at least one or two pairs of jeans waiting to be scooped up by those looking for a 27-inch inseam.

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