Thursday, December 11, 2025

R29 Winter Lookbook: “Glow In The Darkest Months”

Winter is the season to create your own joy.

The light dims, the temperatures drop, and suddenly the world asks you to become your own source of warmth. But joy in winter isn’t found — it’s self-initiated. It’s the glitter you swipe on for an office party, the text inviting friends over when the instinct is to hibernate, the little acts of glamour that lift your mood when the sun clocks out early.

Although I live in sunny Los Angeles now — and this will be my third winter here — the New Yorker in me will never forget what the season truly feels like. I know the sharp bite of wind on your face, the sprint to the subway in a full-length puffer, the way a great coat can change your entire outlook on a day that feels impossibly gray. Winter requires resourcefulness. It asks you to participate in your own delight.

For this year’s Winter Lookbook, we embraced that ethos and dreamed up five archetypes, each embodying a different response to the season: the woman who refuses to be cold yet refuses to look bad, the early-morning studio devotee, the holiday enthusiast, the effortless hostess, and the one who transforms entirely after dark. They each dress for the mood they want, not the weather outside; they layer textures, play with proportion, embrace metallics, and create their own glow in the darkest months.

To bring this world to life, we partnered with three extraordinary artists:

Stylist Christine Nicholson built a visual universe where winter dressing becomes totally reimagined. Think silver chainmail draped over soft knits, feathered headpieces that nod to another era, and sculptural accessories that redefine cold-weather glamour.

Makeup artist Katie Jane Hughes reimagined holiday beauty with cool restraint. She showed us that luminosity doesn’t require heavy layers; sometimes, a shimmery lip and nearly bare skin is the boldest statement. Her rhinestone freckles for our Snowed Under look were nothing short of magical.

Nail artist Naomi Yasuda elevated winter manicures to high art, crafting everything from delicate reverse French designs to full-on disco-metallic sets that feel like jewelry in their own right.

And beyond the holiday parties, there is the quintessence of winter dressing: New Year’s Eve. It’s a night I take seriously: the ritual of it, the intention behind it, the desire to enter the new year as the fullest, most expressive version of yourself.

As you scroll, you’ll also find guides to braving the cold with style, ideas for hosting in chic winter whites, new ways to think about your nails and makeup this season, and fashion that helps you generate your own joy, no matter the temperature.

Because winter doesn’t hand you delight — you have to make it — and this season, we hope these images inspire you to create more of it.

See the full R29 Winter Lookbook

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Monday, December 1, 2025

H&M Collabs With Perfect Moment On An Après-Ski Winter Collection

Amid all the Cyber Monday sales, gift season frenzy, and new holiday collection drops, the shopping landscape may feel like an avalanche of too many new and shiny things to cart up. But we’re briefly plowing back all of that to shine a light on H&M’s latest (and coveted) collaboration. This time, the reader-favorite retailer has teamed up with luxury ski and lifestyle brand Perfect Moment on an après-ski-inspired winter collection. 

“Après-ski has always had a certain energy: relaxed, comfortable, social, playful, and glamourous,” said Perfect Moment co-founder and creative director Jane Gottschalk, in a press release. “Together [with H&M], we’ve curated a collection that brings the spirit of both brands to life. The pieces are young, fun, [and] sporty, with a winter heartbeat and a nod to the mountains, but belong just as much in the city.” 

The 28-piece capsule collection spans versatile knitwear, down-filled outerwear, and statement accessories — like cozy hats and puffer boots — in a chic winter color palette of black, white, silver, rich burgundy, and icy blue.

“We’re thrilled to be collaborating with Perfect Moment on this winter collection — it’s unexpected, dynamic, and sure to spark excitement,” said H&M creative advisor and head of womenswear design, Ann-Sofie Johansson, in the release. “The silhouettes are glamorous yet laid-back — just like après-ski — but also have a real edge with the leather, faux fur, and textured knits.”

From down puffer jackets, mohair gloves, knit balaclavas, and polarized sunglasses you might actually wear on the slopes to matching sets, merino-wool sweaters, faux-fur boots, and trapper hats you’d wear around a ski lodge (or to simply channel après-ski energy), the collection has a range of functional and fashionable pieces.

And in addition to oversized hoods, waist-cinching toggles, jacquard trims, and pom-poms, Perfect Moment’s signature North Star logo is dotted across all the styles. “The North Star sits at the heart of the brand and part of our DNA — a constant from the inception of the brand in the 80s,” said Gottschalk. “It represents direction, focus, and the idea of finding your own way […] a reminder of where we started and where we’re heading.”

So whether you’re heading to the bunny slopes or your local café for hot chocolate, H&M’s newest collection with Perfect Moment is on its way to dress you up this winter season.

Shop full H&M x Perfect Moment collection on December 2 at 10 a.m. EST.

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Final Chance! Your Guide To The Best Cyber Monday Deals

Every year, it seems like Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales simply aren’t what they were. In 2025, that’s not necessarily the case anymore though. Through our hours of extensive research, we’ve found the best Cyber Monday deals and can confirm the discounts are discounting!. But you still have to shuffle through quite a bit of noise. This is the Super Bowl of online shopping after all, and we’re here to set you up for the ultimate success.

Expect major savings this year, going up to 80% off everything from mattresses to beauty devices, sex toys, designer items, and more. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the sheer volume of sales happening, our organized list below is here to help. Think of it as a personalized roadmap to the best promos available now, helping you score a handful of shopping touchdowns this Cyber Monday.

Ahead, we rounded up the must-see markdowns from reader-favorite brands like Wayfair, Everlane, Nordstrom, Mejuri, Lelo, and more — most of which end tonight. So, grab your laptop, a snack, and a credit card. Get in reader, we’re going (online) shopping!

Best Cyber Monday Mattress & Bedding Sales

Up to 20% off at Avocado

Shoppers can get up to 20% off organic mattresses at Avocado through December 8, no code needed.

Up to 35% off at Casper

No code is needed for Casper’s Cyber Monday bonanza. The brand is offering up to 35% off mattresses and bundles.

Up to 35 off at Cozy Earth

There’s a special promo code for our readers at the bedding and loungewear brand. Enter code REFINERY29 for 35% off until December 31.

Up to 40% at Doze

The brand, known for its duvets, is offering different percentages off its categories. Duvet covers and inserts will be 30% off while bundles will be on sale for 40% off.

Up to 35% off at Ostermoor

The bedding brand is offering up to 35% off its best selling mattresses and 30% off items like its duvet.

25% off at Parachute

Through Cyber Monday, take 25% off all bedding and accessories, and up to 70% off sale styles.

Up to $800 off at Purple

The bedding brand is offering up to $800 off mattresses, including its higher end models through December 8.

Up to $625 off Saatva mattresses

Through Cyber Monday, save more when you spend more, plus save an extra $100 when you purchase any adjustable base or upholstered bed frame with a mattress.

Best Cyber Monday Fashion Sales

Up to 50% off Abercrombie & Fitch

Take between 25% and 50% off almost everything through December 1, no code needed.

Extra 40% off Adidas

Through December 3, take an extra 40% off full-price and sale items, with some exclusions, with code CYBER.

Up to 50% off Alohas shoes

The Spanish-born fashion brand has select footwear styles, from sneakers to ballet flats, on sale for up to 50% through Cyber Monday.

Up to 15% off Angara

Through December 1, the jeweler is offering 12% off orders over $500 and 15% off orders over $1,999. Shoppers can receive a free jewelry gift with every purchase when using the code GIFTANGARA.

Up to 50% off at Anthropologie

Take an extra 50% off sale styles at Anthropologie for a limited time during Cyber Monday. Plus, take 30% off select clothing, home decor and furniture, and gifts.

Up to 50% off at Aritzia

Aritzia’s “Black Fiveday Sale” runs through December 2 and features between 20% and 50% off everything. The brand’s popular Super Puff will also be discounted. No code is needed.

Up to 50% off at Bogg

Known for its hole-y tote bag, Bogg is offering 25% off sitewide until December 1. Its sports collection gets a higher markup, on sale for 50% off through Cyber Monday.

Up to 60% off Brandon Blackwood

The New York-based accessories brand will have its entire site on sale up to 60% off following Black Friday. Starting December 1, full-price items will be 15% off, no code needed.

Up to 40% off at Coach

The brand is offering 40% off select styles on Cyber Monday, including its Gramercy totes and Tabby bags.

Up to 40% off Cos

The brand will have up to 40% off select styles on Cyber Monday, online only, no code necessary.

Up to 50% Off Everlane

Get up to 50% off all styles at Everlane through November 30. Starting December 1, the sale will add an extra promo with 40% off of sweaters.

40% off Free People sale styles

For Cyber Monday, take an additional 40% off all Free People sale styles across fashion.

Up to 30% off at Heaven Mayhem

The celebrity-loved brand has its items, from earrings to Cartier-esque watches, on sale at 30% off until December 2. Shoppers also get a gift with their purchase after spending $100.

Up to 50% off J.Crew

Take 50% off your J.Crew purchase on Cyber Monday, no code needed. There’s also 30% off cashmere, chinos, and suiting, with an extra 60% off sale styles.

25% off Jennifer Behr

Take 25% off orders of $150 or more sitewide, with no exclusions, through December 2.

25% off at Jenny Bird

The jeweler is offering 25% off sitewide through December 1. Shoppers will get a free gift with their purchase, while supplies last. The promotion excludes fine jewelry, and no code is needed.

Up to 50% off Kate Spade

For a limited time, take up to 50% off Kate Spade purses and more —including new arrivals — with some exclusions.

Up to 60% off at Knix 

The brand, known for its period underwear, has a sitewide sale through December 2 with items up to 60% off. Its most popular period undies and bras are included in the sale.

Up to 40% off Lululemon

For one day only, take up to 40% off select Lululemon styles, including rare deals.

Up to 70% off M.Gemi

The Italian footwear brand is offering 30% off its shoes for Cyber Monday, with sale items up to a whopping 70% off.

Up to 50% off Mango

On Cyber Monday only, take up to 50% off select clothing, jewelry, and accessories.

Up to 30% off at Mejuri

The jewelry brand is offering shoppers up to 30% off until December 1 on minimum purchases of $150. Higher end pieces like its serpentine chain necklace in white gold will be on sale for 30% off.

30% off at Melissa

Get 30% off sitewide at the accessories brand until December 3.

Up to 50% off at Monica Vinader

The British jeweler is offering up to 50% off through December 4 with surprise flash sales until then.

Up to 50% Net-a-Porter 

Take up to 50% off select styles at the luxury retailer on Cyber Monday.

Up to 70% off at Nordstrom Rack; up to 60% off at Nordstrom

Nordstrom Rack is offering up to 70% off online and in store across big box brands and indie labels alike. Plus, it’s offering an extra 40% off clearance. The sale runs through December 2. Nordstrom is offering up to 60% off brands like Barbour, Ugg, Veronica Beard, TT Studios, and more through December 3.

40% off at Outdoor Voices

Through Cyber Monday, take 40% off sitewide, and shop additional markdowns on OV Extra styles.

Limited-time deals at Quince

For one day only, shop rare deals across clothing, jewelry, fragrances, luggage, bedding, furniture, and more.

25% off at Reformation

For Cyber Monday, Reformation is offering 25% off everything, including its leather boots and cashmere sweaters.

Up to 50% off Saks Fifth Avenue

The retailer is offering $50 off every $200 shoppers spend with the code CYBRRSF. This promo runs through December 3.

Up to 25% off Shopbop

With the code HOLIDAY, Shopbop customers can get 25% off thousands of items on Cyber Monday.

Up to 50% off at Sperry

The shoemaker, known for its iconic boat shoe and winter boots, has up to 50% off sale styles until December 2. Regular-priced styles get 20% off.

Up to 25% off at Theory

Shop Theory at 25% off the majority of its items through Cyber Monday, including its cashmere sweaters and winter coats.

Up to 55% off at Vionic

The shoe brand will have select styles on sale for up to 55% off select styles starting December 1.

Up to 30% off Vivaia

Through December 2, take 20% off two pairs, 25% off three pairs, or 30% off four pairs with the code BFCM25.

Best Cyber Monday Beauty Sales

Up to 40% off Beauty of Joseon

The K-beauty brand, beloved for its sunscreen and skincare, is offering up to 40% off its items until December 1, via Amazon.

Up to 40% Biodance

The skincare brand, known for its face masks, is offering up to 40% off all its products on Amazon for Cyber Monday.

35% off Bloomeffects

The tulip-power skincare brand is hosting a 35% off sale across its products through December 2. Shoppers must use the code BLOOMVIP35 to receive the discount. Those who spend over $100 will also receive a gift.

Up to 30% off Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare

The skincare brand, loved by beauty enthusiasts for its formulas and devices, is offering 30% sitewide until December 2, with some exclusions like kits. Its LED devices are on sale for 20% off.

Up to 25% off at Dyson

Through December 1, the brand will have several of its most popular hair tools on sale at $100 off each. This includes the Dyson Airwap and Airstrait.

50% off Fresh bestsellers

For a limited time, take 50% off bestsellers and 30% off the rest of the site.

Up to 30 off Jupiter on Amazon

The anti-dandruff haircare brand has its products up to 30% off through December 1 via Amazon.

Up to 25% off La Roche-Posay on Amazon

The skincare label is having a brand-wide sale on Amazon through December 1, where select products will be 25% off. This includes some of its customer favorites, like its cleansing oil, sunscreen, and vitamin C serum.

Up to 31% off Medicube

The K-beauty brand, known for its skincare devices, will have discounts up to 31% off through Cyber Monday. Its popular Booster Pro tool will be on sale for $150, while other skincare products will go sub $20. 

20% off at Merit Beauty

Through December 1, Merit Beauty is hosting its only sale of the year with 20% off sitewide. The brand is also offering a gift with purchases during this time.

Up to 25% off Nécessaire

For a limited time, take up to 25% off select items. Plus, get a free lip balm on all orders while supplies last.

Up to 50% off select beauty at Sephora

Through December 1, Sephora’s Cyber Week deal offers up to 50% off select beauty products from brands like Laneige, Rare Beauty, and Paula’s Choice.

25% off at Sulwhasoo

The brand is offering 25% off sitewide starting December 1. The promotion includes its sets, and if you spend over $350, there’s a six-piece gift with purchase.

25% off at Tatcha

Take up to 25% off sitewide with code CYBER25 through Cyber Monday. Plus, choose free gifts with purchases of $100 or more.

Up to 50% off at The Doux

The haircare brand, which works on all hair types and is specially formulated for textured hair, is offering 30% off purchases under $50, 40% off purchases over $50, and 20% off sitewide until December 6. No code is needed.

25% off Victoria Beckham Beauty

Today only, take 25% off sitewide, automatically applied in cart with some exclusions.

Up to 40% off at Ulta

The beauty retailer’s Cyber Monday bonanza runs until December 1 with over 400 items up to 40% off. Entire brands like Beyonce’s Cecred, Ulta’s in-house brands, and Tarte will be on sale for 30% off.

Best Cyber Monday Home & Tech Sales

Up to 20% off at Flamingo Estate

The brand is offering 20% off sitewide until December 2, which includes most items, like its popular tomato candle.

Up to 30% off Higherdose

The brand, known for its sauna blanket and wellness tech, is offering 20% off sitewide through Cyber Monday with the code BFCM2025. Bundles will be 30% off, no code needed.

Free gifts from Le Creuset

Today only, get different free gifts on $200 and $250+ orders with code FREEGIFT, plus enjoy free shipping on all orders.

Up to 40% off select Nespresso machines

The coffee brand will have some of its machines discounted for Cyber Monday, with up to 40% items like its Vertuo Next Deluxe.

Up to 35% off at Our Place

The Always Pan-maker has its entire website on sale at 35% off sitewide through December 1.

Up to $1,000+ off Samsung

The tech giant is having sales across categories, from its smartphones to gaming monitors, TVs, and tablets. For example, you can save up to $1,000 on its Galaxy Z Fold7 with a trade in, or $600 off without one. 

Up to 45% off Shark

On Cyber Monday, Shark will have new products up to 45% off with the code MONDAY15. Then, starting December 2, the promo will continue with an extra 10% off sitewide with the code CYBER10. Sale items will include its vacuums and viral ice cream maker.

Up to 80% off at Wayfair

Through Cyber Monday, shop of tons of deals across furniture, decor, mattresses, and more — including up to 80% off area rugs. Plus, everything ships free.

Best Cyber Monday Sex Toy Sales

Up to 60% off Dame

Subscribe to Dame emails to get access to deals and flash sales as much as 60% off.

Up to 40% off Honey Birdette

Honey Birdette has 40% off its best selling items, including sex toys and lingerie, for Cyber Monday. No code needed.

Up to 50% off at Lelo

The sex toy brand has discounts of up to 50% off its luxury lineup through Cyber Monday.

Up to 70% off at Lovehoney

Expect steep discounts on sex toys from Lovehoney on Cyber Monday. Everything from couples advent day calendars to bondage items and roses will be on major sale.

Up to 40% off Maude

Known for its discreet sex toys and elevated intimacy essentials, all of Maude’s products are on sale for up to 40% off through December 1. Save more when you bundle through the brand’s Ritual Builder.

Up to 65% off Womanizer

Through December 1, take up to 65% off select sex toys, including advent calendars.

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Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Bowen Yang & Matt Rogers Curated The Ultimate Cool Girl Gift Guide

If there’s one thing we can count on Bowen Yang and Matt Rogers for, it’s a hyper-specific pop culture reference. For the last decade, the comedic duo have mined the deepest corners of queer cultural zeitgeist on their podcast Las Culturistas, which snagged iHeartRadio’s Podcast Of The Year Award in 2023. This holiday season, their new Marshalls campaign — It’s Giving Gifts! — channels their encyclopedic archive of niche archetypes into the highest form of holiday-season community service: helping shoppers find the perfect present for every type of person in their lives.

From best gifts “for the homebody who loves their sourdough starter more than you, and you have accepted that” to selections for “the cool girl who is always late and makes you think punctuality is kind of embarrassing” and “the teen who has so much drip you were left with no choice but to use the word “‘drip’ to describe them” — each gift guide offers meticulously curated, cross-category selections from designer labels and beloved brands at a wide variety of price points

“Saying that you love Marshalls is like ordering Diet Coke for the table,” Yang tells Refinery29 while we chat in-store at Marshalls in Manhattan. “You empower other people to say something they thought was buried: ‘Oh, wait, I’ve always loved Marshalls too.’”

Below, Yang and Rogers share their best tips for picking the perfect gift, their most formative holiday memories, and the greatest presents they’ve ever given — and received.

Let’s talk about my personal favorite gift-guide archetype — gifts for “the cool girl who is always late and makes punctuality seem kind of embarrassing.” To reference the recurring segment on your podcast — what are the cultural moments that made this cool girl who she is today?

Bowen Yang: We all know this girl. We might even be this girl. This girl saw Mean Girls in theaters at least 5 times in 2004. She really imprinted on — not Romy and Michelle — but she identified with their bullies. Maybe [they identify] with Janeane Garofalo ’cause they like a quick-smoke cigarette because they have places to be and they are always late to those places.

Matt Rogers: I would say it’s that girl from high school who you’re like: “You learned the wrong thing from Regina George.”  But… she looked good.

There’s so many cute purses and shoes in the “cool girl” gift guide. Where is the cool girl wearing these accessories while out and about in Manhattan?

Yang: She’s taking this to Balthazar, Carbone, the Whitney, the Circle Line Cruise so she can swing around [her purse] while the DJ plays a song on a boat. 

Rogers: She’s going to take this to Zero Bond. She’s going to walk past Taylor Swift, and Taylor’s gonna go: “So sorry, where did you get that bag?” She’ll say: “Marshalls.” And she’s going to wink at Taylor, and Taylor’s gonna be like: “Travis, we gotta go. Let’s get to Marshalls.” 

Be honest, did you have any specific friends in mind when creating the “cool girl”” gift guide?

Yang: I would say our friend Greta [Gerwig] — who we love. Greta is giving both Sabrina Carpenter and early aughts SJP, plus the dad’s girlfriend from The Parent Trap.

Rogers: Yeah. Any stepmother from any movie where the stepmother comes in and is like: “It’s off to boarding school with you.” But we love that stepmother. We aspire to be her.

For the person who just can’t decide on a gift — what picks from your gift guides do you think are the most universal crowd-pleasers?

Yang: Silk pajamas, skincare… this bag is a star. This bag has been with us the entire campaign. And I will never forget about her — she’s high impact. 

Rogers: And you really can’t go wrong with a candle.

You’re clearly both great gift-givers — but what about receiving? Was there a childhood gift that genuinely shaped who you are today

Rogers: This was the year that PlayStation 2 came out. I was a video game kid — Bowen Yang still is — and I really wanted that PS2. And they were like: “You’re not getting it. It’s too expensive and no one can get it.” And then on Christmas day, I kept opening up PS2 games, and I was like: “Well, I guess you got me the games for one day when I get the system, right?” They were like: “Exactly, one day when you get the system.” Low and behold, the last gift hiding under the couch was the PS2, and I was a very happy boy.

Yang: Mine was after Batman Forever came out. I had a Batgirl, Alicia Silverstone action figure — that really spoke to me and has since. 

What’s the most unexpected place you’ve ever spent the holidays?

Yang: Someone in my family recently pitched, out of nowhere: “What about Scottsdale this Christmas?” I said: “What about it? We don’t know anybody there.” No shade to Scottsdale it’s just like… why would we go there? 

Rogers: I will be doing a Tampa Christmas because my parents snowbird down there. People who know me are like: “Matt Rogers, Florida for Christmas, checks out.”

What are your favorite types of gifts to give? 

Yang: Candles are a go-to. I think we’re finally, as a culture, coming out of the stigma around candles as gifts. For a while there, it was like: “Oh, you got a candle? How impersonal.” No. No one’s gonna turn down a candle.

Rogers: I really hit the jackpot one year when I realized that I could get bespoke drink coasters and customize them for my friends. So I got coasters with different pop stars on them and I gave them to all my friends for the pop star that they stan. And I do think that was my best idea and now I have to think of something else creative.

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